Sometimes life appears too funny. It isn't exactly dat easier as it seems and sometimes da other way. Last week I shared with ya'll how excited I was to go to beach n all dat. BTW, It was an awesome experience...Something dat I will cherish for all da years to come. But dats not da reason I am writing dis new blog 2day. I am writing it because of what happened in a part of dis whole trip...A lot of action, emottions & drama. Idk y, but I have sooo much similar spiced up incedents in my lyfe. So I just added an another one to it.

It all happened on Sunday night wen I was returning home from Diu (I never wanned 2 but yea I am responsible man, n have to go 2 job on Monday...which suxxx a lot.lol) I recieved a call on my cell which one of my buddy picked up who accompnied me on da trip (As i was at da beach wid another friend of mine)...So he comes running n informs me dat a Vroom (One of my friend's twin brother) called up n said dat if I ever call his bro's g/f again, he would beat me up...Da deal was, wen we were drunk saturday nyte, I called her a lot of tymes n she din' picked up...but I kept callin' coz i wanned to kno wat iz rong wid her...Me n "Vabs" (Da guy...or my former very good friend...n now dat gurl's b/f) have been very good friends since past 3 years (Dats wat I thought). On da top of it, da girl whom I called is a common friend of ours, whom he proposed just 2-3 months back. I know y all these thyngs happened. I n Rimmy (Da Gurl) became pretty close friends over a last year, untill he (Vabs) proposed her. Than thyngs started changing.

I realised a few months back wen Vabs asked me if I love Rimmy or not...N I m an honest guy, yea i liked her too much, but din' loved her...So i said, "No I don't love her". It made him propose her n as I said, he started changing...He knew how good bonding between me n Rimmy was...Dat made him feel a lil' jelous n Insecure....He asked her to drop my calls...Even she told me dat Vabs din' lyked u calling me...I made her understand dat if der is even a lil' complication due to me in your relationship, notify me n I'll stop talking to u (It was hard, as i'll loose such a good friend with whum i spent an hour talking everyday). But dats da way lyfe goes on...U have to be concerned about da happiness of da ppl ya love...Dats wat I believe in. Yea, my best friend "Bali" still calls diz idealogy a f'kd up 1.lol but dats okay.

So da deal is, we faught a lot on da matter...N both of my friends abused Vabs a lot on da call 2. I was broke a lil' bit thinkin hw a person can change from whu he was 2 wat he is...N honestly I had a tear in my eyes after a looong looooooooong tyme (Yea I get a lil' softy smtymes).lol. It wasn't because I din' got da gurl..It happened becoz smtymes wat u do fo ppl just doesn't count. I said him dat I would not wish 2 have a friend lyke him in my lyfe...He calls me back on monday wen I returned and meets me up (Infact he met me 2day evening) and gave me a justification lists for around 2 hours....He still wants 2 be my friend whyle I do not wish 2 do sooo.

Lemme kno folks wat wud have done...F'give him or end everythyng?
 
Bottom Line: "Emotion changes wid tyme"! I've heard ppl sayin' dat all their friend had done for them was to lend them a few thousand bucks. But its not doz thousand bucks u return dat counts...>Wat counts is Tyme...If sm1 helps u in yor tuff tymes...mentally, emotionaly,financially...care fo dem always. If u r crying n da other person feels 2 cry...but doesn't cry wid ya..n hlps u 2 f'get da whole thyng...Dats wat a real friend iz. I am not a great saint but all deeze experiences will help me to publish a book of mine in da future. I will appreciate if you wanna share any relationship problems. Tc god bless!

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