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So I have been dealing with the fact that my friend Jed and I haven’t spoken for the last 18 months. Recalling the last few times we spoke and really not remembering what was said or what actions that caused our relationship to deteriorate so dramatically. I have been driving to myself mad with trying to figure out what the HELL happened. Talking to my friends, this is what I found out…….
Remember my dear friend Carrie; if not check out my blog and a few entries back, she has been introduced already. Anywho, so when I told Carrie that Jed had passed away she intently made this situation about her…… She told me that she has always really, truly loved him. Hah, sound familiar? I told her that I really wish I knew what happened that caused him and I to stop talking. She reminded me of about two years back when she came to visit without her husband but with her second daughter.
Jed was in the hospital this particular time, and Carrie went to visit him. She spent some time with him and he reveled that he has been attracted to Carrie since he met her a few years back. Since then Carrie moved across the country, got married and had another child. Jed pretty much stayed around town, and pursued his ambitions around here. And they lived their lives. Until Carrie came home for a visit, and wanted to see my boys ‘cause they were so fun to hang out with.
On one of Carrie’s visits with Jed in the hospital they kissed a couple of times, then Jed talked to Carrie about leaving her husband and coming here to be with him and he would take care of her and her daughter. Though all he had for income was his SSI and Disability, and that only covered his basic bills, if that. Carrie was really thinking about it. Then she told me about it.
I told her Carrie that Jed was sick, and needed to really focus on his health and well-being, and not to come out here after leaving her husband, to think that she was going to live the great fairy tale love story. She decided to stay with her husband, but told Jed the reason for her decision to stay was that I told her that he could barely take care of himself, let-alone a woman and a child. Well, Jed apparently, was furious, he did confront me about it, and I told him exactly what I told Carrie, thinking that our friendship would make him see that I wasn’t trying to screw him out of his need for a relationship, however I wanted to warn him from wrecking a marriage if he wasn’t ready for go full throttle. He seemed to understand what I was saying, though aggravated, still didn’t appear to want to get rid of our friendship, Man was I wrong.
Carrie told me that she talked to Jed for months, and talked him about how I was trying to take away his happiness, by lying to him about how I felt. Now I have to give you a little background; I have these three guy friends, Jed, Ross and Mike. We were pretty much inseparable for about five years; I credit my best girlfriend Tonya for introducing them into my life.
My boys thought it was great to have a girl as a friend, because I came with girl friends. I didn’t like that at all; in fact I was very hurt by it. My boys dated a few of my friends, or tried to date a few of my other girl friends, but they quickly figured out, despite my warnings, that my friends were crazy, and jealous and wanted them to give up their friendship with ME. This problem came to a point were to this day I don’t speak to three of my friends, because my boys chose my friendship then them sucking their dicks. This is how I know that women are bitches.
Thanks to Carrie and her selfishness, I lost a friendship that she really had not business getting involved in, she was and still is married. I tried to repair the damage of my friendship with Jed, without knowing that she was still talking to him, and discounting whatever I was telling him. To this day, Carrie is with a man that she has ALWAYS loved, she claims, that she has had an emotional affaire with during her entire marriage and is still married to her husband. She has abandoned her daughter that lives here, and hasn’t bothered to make a move to get back to her life in North Carolina were her two other daughters are.
If you are a regular reader of my blog, you know that I have no patience for incompetent mothers and you already know that I don’t speak to 3 former friends, and I have decided that since Carrie doesn’t seem to care about her children, and is unable to see how her actions effect other people in her life, I really don’t need her toxic behavior in my life. I have enough of my own drama of my own making; I really don’t need to deal with hers too.
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Posted by heavenlyeyes401 on 2007-11-03 11:20:50 | Rating: | Views: 86
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well I am female...and I tend to still agree with you. I've come to not understand people in general. I loath people, male or female, who are in a relationship with one person and then screw around with someone else behind their mates back. The damage it does is life long and affects more people than they could even realize. When my ex and I divorced he kept everything, money, clothes, make up, etc. I got the kids and never looked back. It saddens me that people like your friend Carrie ever have anyone to care about them...because clearly it means nothing to them anyway. I have very few friends for about the same reason.
I'm sorry that you haved had to experience ugly people like this.
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Posted by Brokenhearted
on 2007-11-03 12:58:48
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