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Even in this day and age, most people will look at you like you have a disease if you tell them that you met someone online and that you are dating them. Some say it’s dangerous, some say it’s stupid. How do you fall in love over the computer? How do you let your heart go to someone that you have not met, which might live miles and miles away? How do you know you are giving your heart to someone who is honest and trustworthy?
When/if people ask me these questions; I guess I just answer what feels right. I don’t know about other people and how they feel, I don’t know about their experiences. I just know mine. Some have been bad and some have been good.
This topic first started in my head a few weeks after I started blogging here on Thought.com and has escalated because I met someone online that I want to get to know.
I wasn’t looking for him, wasn’t trying to find someone to date, I have been happy being single living with my two precious kitties.
All of a sudden, one night I find him. After a couple of email exchanges, he gave me his number and I called him. I met him in person. He lives less than 15 miles away from me.
He is very nice, has a great personality, a good job, a big loud truck, around my age, single, never been married and has no kids.
He met my “kids” and they seem to love him. He favors Gracie over Sophie because he thinks that Sophie is a little hyper. Personally I disagree because I think my kids can walk on water… but, I will let him think that.
The other night when he came over to pick me up for dinner, he brought me a dozen roses, a bottle of perfume and he brought the kids some cat toys. Isn’t he nice?
Last night he changed the oil in my Jeep while I tried REAL HARD to listen and retain all of the car talk he was telling me about my Jeep. Hehe I don’t know how much I will remember!
I know this is still new and in the beginning stages but I really like this guy and hope that our budding relationship grows.
I just have to figure out how to keep the kids away from the flowers he brings me. They want to eat them and while I am not home, I have to keep them in the fridge so that they don’t get to them. My fridge is going to get full soon. What to do?
I am happy.
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Posted by heatherslife on 2008-05-16 14:44:32 | Rating: | Views: 109
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wow! Fantastic post .. glad I stopped by.
I too have met someone online and agree it's like you've grown horns or something - but my someone is miles away ... you could say countries away. But it just feels too right to not let it happen.
Good luck with yours! :)
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Posted by EasyToSay
on 2008-05-22 09:54:00
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agree with Easy, great post. seems everyone's finding a little romance on Thoughts these days! I was never against or for internet relationships, just wasn't my thing. But lately, I too have met someone on here that I am getting to know.
Sometimes things happen when you least expect it, and in ways you'ld never guess. Good luck to ya heather, sounds like it's off to a great start.
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Posted by spiritualcoma
on 2008-06-01 00:51:20
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Great post. I am glad you found a nice guy.
I have kitties too. Sophie and Gracie sound wonderful.
My husband had to stop bringing me flowers because my Betsy ate them too. He got tired of them being outside. Never thought of the fridge.
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Posted by Fancie
on 2008-06-12 17:31:15
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I know what you mean. I am glad about the guy. Dating online isn't bad. But people who are mean have to put their two cents into make anyone's life horable.
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Posted by Kaykay200
on 2008-06-25 13:28:43
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