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Its's weird. I never looked at her as the "cheating" type. But here lately, her behavior is odd. The other night, I came home from work and she was in a different outfit then when I had left to go to work for the evening. I didn't think much of it, figured that our little one had shit through her diaper again and it got on her. Last night, I come in from work and she and the little one were sleeping. I picked up her cell phone up off the floor so that it wouldn't get stepped on, and I happen to look to see what time it was.... only it told me that there was a message. I looked at it (of course) and all that it said was "hey, what's up?" I memorized the number that it came from (cause apparently the number was not in her contact list) and called it. A gy by the name of Dave answered the phone, I asked why he was texting her phone and he said "hey buddy, i've been doing more than just texting to her phone....." and he hung up. I woke her up after I came back in the room and told her that I was home and she told me that she was glad that I woke her up cause she needed to go to work to pick up her check. Really, at 11 P.M.? Then this morning, she wakes me up at 5 A.M. and tells me that she needs to go to her Anger Managemnt class today so that she didn't get into trouble. Funny, but I know that when she went 2 weeks ago, she told me that she was going to go every other week due to her money issues and that the place she takes her classes at was cool with it. So that is where she is "at" now. But do I really believe her?
Of course I am mad, but how do I confront her about it with out some real SOLID evidence? She has accused me so many times over the last 2 years of cheating. I told her to not accuse me unless someone seen me with someone and my dick had better be in that person when I am seen. So if that is my policy (so to speak), then if I accuse her it will make me a hypocrit. I am so confused, I don't know what the hell is going on. |
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Posted by hater22 on 2007-12-19 10:07:02 | Rating: | Views: 142
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Wow...this could all be coincidence, it doesn't seem concrete, but if you don't know maybe try surprising her or something, maybe with flowers, that way you can see what's up and not seem like your stalking...or just talk to her about your concerns in a non-confrontational manner
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Posted by Rajah1116
on 2007-12-19 10:10:21
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Even when I approach her in a non-confrontational manner, it gets confrontational.... that is why she is in anger management. Court ordered that is. She got mad and then my neck looked like I was hanging out with Freddy Kruger!
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Posted by hater22
on 2007-12-19 10:17:02
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I'd definitely look for more clues. Though with this guy Dave saying he's doing more than just talking to your wife say's something.
I hate to hear that your wife laid her hands on you - that is never cool.
I have to say go with your gut. If your gut says something is going on, most likely it is. Keep your eyes open for more signs - I know you will now that your aware of "something" going on.
BTW the baby in your pic is just precious!
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Posted by Whitters
on 2007-12-19 10:20:41
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Yes, adorable little girl...
If she is hurting you perhaps you should take your little one and leave anyway, it's not good for either of you!
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Posted by Rajah1116
on 2007-12-19 10:21:52
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Thanks for the comments on my little one. She is the one with Down Syndrome. I have tried to leave with her, and we always end up back in the same spot. It is not right that she laid her hands on me, but I didn't fight back. I NEVER fight back unless HER fist is thrown first or my life is in Danger. That is how I was "wired"
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Posted by hater22
on 2007-12-19 10:25:16
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I understand, but it is not only not good for you, but your little girl(s)? are seeing this...I really think you should just go...take your babies and leave, with having court ordered anger management I don't think she will get custody..just visitation...good luck
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Posted by Rajah1116
on 2007-12-19 10:31:41
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You're welcome. Your daughter is so cute, my heart giggles. LOL
If you leave can you take your daughter with you. I mean if she is cheating are you going to stay?
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Posted by Whitters
on 2007-12-19 10:32:38
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IF she is cheating, I am out of here. She doesn't have custody and she doesn't have a say in it if I take her or not. I think tha she has a deeper psychological problem than what she puts on. I know that by the way that she acts on a day to day basis. Wish I would have known that 2 years ago!
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Posted by hater22
on 2007-12-19 10:40:29
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If she has hit you I would really really really urge you to leave either way....not trying to be pushy, just concerned for you and the babies.
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Posted by Rajah1116
on 2007-12-19 10:51:02
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You should call 'Cheaters' they'll get down to the real deal.
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Posted by LadiLucifer
on 2007-12-19 11:34:04
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I know you've had a lot of comments on this post, but let me try a different perspective. I tend to make posts only showin my side of the story, so are we gettingg the whole story? When you called this guy up, were you really pissed off and yelling at him, or calm and just asking questions?
I know that if a female friend of mine's boyfriend/husband called me up all pissed off and talking sh*t to me, I'd probably say something along those same lines. Most people will tend to do that.
Also, my wife and I have had our problems in the past. I never suspected her of cheating once. Even though she came at me swinging one night. We had a lot of fights and had our issues, but things now are just calm.
If you ever check out my blog, there is a lot about our relationship in there. But, things can always just seem that way. I've had gut feelings before and they have been true, but the same could be said for them being not true.
I would say that you need to just ask her about it straight up. Don't tell her you looked in her phone though. My wife was pissed when I did that to her. I would ask her, and depending on her answer, maybe follow her one time or something.
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Posted by crash413
on 2007-12-24 05:22:38
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Honestly crash, when I called the guy, I was calm. I asked simply who it was and why it was that he was calling her phone. I found out early in life that you attract more bees with honey rather than vinager. Yes, everyone's post are one sided so to speak. I have just been keeping my eye's peeled latley for more clues so that I can approach her in a rational manner.
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Posted by hater22
on 2007-12-24 14:32:55
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