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Its late on 2007-12-31 04:52:46 |
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Seems like you're stressed out because of the arguing/conflict involving your boyfriend's family and, if you're pregnant, maybe because of that as well. Some people don't like anything that is confrontational or argumentative and they get uncomfortable when they're around people who are arguing. They especially expect friends and family to get along with one another as that is supposed to be the haven from the troubles of the outside world. Unfortunately, I've found that it is rather common for family members to argue with one another. Mine certainly do.
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made out of on 2007-12-31 03:49:10 |
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Good for you. I always have found writing to be an excellent way of expressing one's self. Whet'er its writing a poem or an essay for school I always enjoyed it.
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Im Worried on 2007-12-29 09:48:17 |
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Consult a doctor or nurse. Sometimes there are even telephone numbers you can call to speak to a nurse if you're embarassed - try looking in the phone book. As for your boyfriend.. he might be avoiding you because he's embarassed.
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Frustration on 2007-12-29 09:32:07 |
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You were victimized the first time by being sexually assaulted and now, by being forced to be in the company of someone who you feel uncomfortable with, you are being victimized again. This is wrong and it is not fair to you. Your boyfriend and your friend should realize this and should not put you in this situation. I'm rather shocked that someone who is your friend would be friends with a guy who assaulted you in the first place - that doesn't seem very friendly. Tell your boyfriend that you don't want your attacker at the house anymore. If he really cares about you he should understand this and have no problem telling the guy to stay off his property.
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i decided on 2007-12-29 09:23:42 |
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A guy who threatens to physically harm you and who makes fun of you and puts you down is seriously flawed. These types of people make themselves feel "big" by making other people feel "small". They lack a strong character of their own so they try to make themselves feel better by attempting to make others think they are weak and useless. Unfortunately, sometimes people who are emotionally vulnerable will stay with them because they think they're tough/strong and will take care of them - I don't know if this is what was your situation or not but it often is. However, these people usually cannot even taken care of themselves never mind anyone else - they really are emotionally weak and are just putting on a show to act "strong". I wish you the best in your new relationship and in sorting out your feelings.
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christmas message [serious entry] on 2007-12-25 04:38:21 |
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You make some very good points about Christmas and, I'm not sure what's going on that is upsetting you but I hope you decide to stay around. Merry Christmas.
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Official Resignation on 2007-12-19 00:39:51 |
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Amen.
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Robbed, Abandoned, Stabbed in the Back-but with ho on 2007-12-16 18:15:31 |
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Sounds like you have a lot of guilt in you for not following the teachings that the Christian church lays out. I have some idea of how that must be since I used to be a Christian years ago myself before becoming an atheist. I still respect people with faith (still have lunch with my old teacher from my Christian school) but I can't believe in it anymore. However, the church can be a good support system for you if you're fighting depression so maybe you should look at it that way. And about your job... don't worry about it too much even though it's hard not to. I've been disciplined at work, even got fired, because the boss didn't like me.. and I survived. Actually I make more money now then I did then.
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Abortion on 2007-12-11 22:13:32 |
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Hm.. unless you're attempting to use the old faulty logic example of 'All horses have four legs therefore everything with four legs is a horse'? Just because all horses necessarily have four legs doesn't mean that all things with four legs necessarily are horses... Is your argument that a fetus may be a human but not all humans are necessarily persons? Again, that's an argument have some difficulty accepting.
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Abortion on 2007-12-11 21:43:14 |
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Hm, afraid I don't follow the logic there. It appears from your sentence that you're postulating that person = human and then that fetus = human so, consequently, that would mean that fetus = person. So, are you conceding the point that a fetus is a person and arguing that it is irrelevant? Because if that is the case I would have to disagree. Personhood is where rights derive from. At least in my opinion. Some would also argue that animals have inherent rights but I am not yet convinced of that argument. I think that animals should be treated humanely and should even have protections under the law but I don't agree that they have inherent rights in the same way persons do. If you are a person you have certain fundamental rights - if you are not a person then you do not have those rights. This has been an issue of contention throughout history where various factions argued over whether certain individuals qualified as real "persons" in one way or another (i.e. the argument in the Church during the 1500's/1600's whether aboriginals had souls and qualified as persons, the argument in the early twentieth century in Canada over whether women were "persons" under the law qualified to be members of the Senate, etc.
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"Now I will be famous" ....Omaha Mall Shooter on 2007-12-07 10:52:38 |
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I think that people usually start off wanting to be part of society, accepted as part of the "group". However, if for whatever reason, we feel we are rejected (whether this rejection is real or imagined) then people grow resentful and want to take revenge against those they feel as having wronged them. Is this what happened with the shooter in this case? I don't know because I haven't followed the story that closely but I wouldn't be surprised. As for gun control.. I support gun control but the sad fact is that, if a person wants a gun badly enough, they will still get a hold of it. I live in Canada where gun control is quite strict compared to the USA and we still have shootings. That being said, less guns will probably lead to less shootings but it won't lead to no shootings.
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(Two-4-One) Love Going Nowhere on 2007-12-04 22:42:12 |
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Oh, and I read in your other blog you're thinking about doing some drugs.. you may not listen to this advice but I recommend against it. You definitely don't need to be depressed and addicted to drugs (then you'll just be depressed and poor both) and you might have a bad reaction (i.e. get something that's contaminated or it might interact badly with your anti-depressants).
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(Two-4-One) Love Going Nowhere on 2007-12-04 22:33:14 |
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As someone who also battles depression I would suggest you may want to speak with a counsellor. If you're repeatedly thinking about suicide then you need to talk to someone who's a professional. I went to see a counsellor for years and, although I can't say I'm cured of depression, it certainly helped me. It's good to get things off your chest and talking to friends or family, or even posting on a blog, can only go so far.. a professional counsellor can offer some relief that those people just can't.
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Outcast on 2007-12-04 19:11:40 |
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Yeah. I actually wrote that a year or two ago when I was feeling quite depressed and frustrated. I don't always feel that way but sometimes I do. Thanks for the hugs. :)
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Love. . . . on 2007-12-03 22:41:31 |
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A very well thought out and well expressed commentary. Keep it up.
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The Threesome Lie. on 2007-12-03 22:17:28 |
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Well personally I believe in being honest with people unless you've got a really good reason not to be, especially if it's someone you care about. So, unless you think the person would fly into a hysterical state or something and perhaps hurt themself or someone else, then I'd recommend being honest.
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Pre Menstrual Syndrome on 2007-12-03 21:10:49 |
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It's good to have goals in life and to strive hard for them. Everyone wants to be in control of their lives. I've found though that, no matter what you achieve or what you have, you'll never ever be totally satisfied. I think it's human nature to always want more.
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