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 The Five of Cups


For a year or so I studied the ancient art of Tarot reading. In the beginning the Tarot cards and their images were fascinating but I slowly discovered I did not believe in their divining powers. In addition my efforts soon revealed that if the Tarot reader does not have complete faith in the art there is no point continuing. It was repeated in the many books I poured over, the cards would not work for the unbeliever.  I found what the books said was true.

Somewhere in my house a small box of Tarot cards is tucked away in a safe place. I no longer remember the location of that safe place. I no longer remember the card spreads or what they mean. I no longer have the curiosity or the interest in Tarot. What I do remember is the image represented on the Five of Cups card which ever haunts me with its lesson.

It is co-incidental I notice, five is also my number in numerology another alternative ancient system; another belief system that I consider playful at best. I mention this because it is as I write this that I become cognizant of this co-incidence for the first time. Co-incidences are lovely magical happenings meaning relatively nothing to anyone else but the person that is discovering their own personal co-incidence. I love them, they make me giggle.

There are four suits in the Tarot, each symbolizes an aspect of life. The suit of Cups signifies feeling. The Five of Cups shows an image of a person shrouded in black, hunched, a sad feeling of regret, looking upon three spilled overturned cups while behind him two upright full goblets go undetected. Of all the cards in the Tarot deck this card spoke to me. It taught me obsessing with regret will cause blindness to what is good in life. It whispered lessons about gratitude and warnings of taking things for granted.

When life struck me from behind a couple of times, this card came and comforted me. It’s image would give me strength through the practice of gratitude. When my life was threatened on a couple of occasions, it is this card that whispered suggestions which helped me deal with the challenges a death threat poised, ready to strike, presents.

It is a simple philosophy, a no brainer really. But one which is forgotten when we become desensitized to the good around us. Ingratitude sneaks up on a person ambushing their good will as comparison seduces them into constant desire. It begins with the thought, "Not good enough" and snowballs down hill from there. Before long all that is present are complaints and comparisons resulting in the chilling creep of misery. A misery that is chased by more desires. The rat on the wheel, spinning endlessly, whizzing into numb.

Getting off the wheel is not easy, it takes time to reverse the whirring speed of the wheel's momentum. It is difficult because adopting a new habit, a daily habit, somewhat like taking your daily vitamins is tedious.  However the antidote to misery is adopting the 'habit' of gratitude,  a safe and legal amphetamine for the soul.

Upon rising every day and sleeping for the night, instead of running through all the things you don’t have, all the problems posing anxiety, all the horror on earth, all the negative issues around you, all the people who have angered, harmed, disrespected, hated and ridiculed you, dare to search for something different.

You brush your teeth, wash your face, nourish yourself, exercise, improve your mind why not feed your soul? Why not develop the habit of gratitude? Why not remind yourself on a daily basis what works in your life? Why not list the good things?

Upon rising why not remember that without a hot shower life would be more difficult and be grateful for this very good thing? Why not relish in the warmth of the water which is as close as a flip of a switch? Why not savour for an extra minute the sensations of warm water as it caresses your skin? Why not be grateful for this joy?

Upon retiring at night why not remember that you will sleep safely? Why not remember that sleeping without worry is not had by all? Why not remember that the bed you drop into at night is particularly deliciously comfortable? Why not be grateful for this joy?

Whatever your situation, even if you aren't privy to hot and warm showers or a sensually scrumptious bed there is good in your life. It's a cinch to find what's missing, it takes awareness to find what's already here.




    Posted by greunie on 2009-11-03 23:12:18 | Rating: | Views: 179
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Two quotes:

"For what doth it profit a man if a gift is bestowed upon him, and he receive not the gift? Behold, he rejoices not in that which is given unto him, neither rejoices in him who is the giver of the gift."

"But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing."

It's good to remember what we have, be grateful that it is ours.
Posted by  lynbarnes  on 2009-11-03 23:22:14 
  
Great quotes Lyn, exactly! If we believe to be perfect and entire then we want for nothing. Excessive comparison is a killer of our sensuality. Once we become desensitized, boredom waltzes in and we are on the 'ride' ever looking for excitement and pleasure which of course doesn't last because we can't 'feel' anymore.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-04 07:18:18 
  
You have a gift with words and insight.
Thank you for sharing. A needed reminder for all.
Posted by  vestigesofhermind  on 2009-11-03 23:37:48 
  
Thank you for your kind words and I appreciate your visit.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-04 07:19:13 
  
I like the positive tone of the blog - I've never trifled with tarot reading or numerology - but understand the basic principles - I feel that it's safer to avoid playing with things you don't really understand.

But I do like meditation - in yoga they teach you how to meditate and to breathe in positivity and to let go of all the negativity - it's good because you're stretching your body as well as your mind...

It's hard to be positive with so much negativity around us but it's always character building to try.

Thanks for the wonderful blog
Posted by  Acinerov  on 2009-11-04 01:02:57 
  
With all the negativity surrounding us, it is necessary to exercise some kind of opposing force. Yoga is a wonderful discipline. Wonderful to 'see' you babes.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-04 07:23:14 
  
We live in fabulously safe times; yet people have rarely if ever been more fearful.

We live in fabulously wealthy times; yet people have never been more greedy.

Does all this desperate striving and negativity come from within individuals or is it constructed by social, economic and political structures?
Posted by  stevehayes13  on 2009-11-04 02:05:06 
  
Negativity to me is a meme which found willing fearful participants, all of us. Certainly marketing has increased our disatisfaction by heavily stressing the comparison chip. On a daily basis we are shown horror, better things that we don't have or are not. Images which constantly push the fear and desire buttons. We do it to each other and at the same time, paradoxically, to ourselves. We scramble for happiness in the things we acquire only to find that happiness doesn't last unless you are content in your soul. Negativity desensitizes our sensuality and we become bored with ordinary stimulation, more and more we need.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-04 07:34:48 
  
I can't tell you how much this blog touched me, Greunie. It's message of positivity and grateful acceptance of all that is good in our lives and this world was a needed reminder to myself. Thank you, I needed to read this. =)
Posted by  Blossom  on 2009-11-04 04:03:50 
  
Dear sweet baby girl, life is daunting, we need all the tools available to tame it's forceful roar. Negativity enters without permission, gratitude requires skill. A big mama-bear hug!
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-04 07:38:57 
  
So very true Greunie. I try to pray nightly and say things that I am thankful for. I so much relish my hot shower in the morning and often just let it splatter on me in complete gratitude. I love your post and how from one powerful image, it elicits so many reflections. It is a good reminder to us all.
Posted by  Moxi  on 2009-11-04 07:56:11 
  
To remember to be grateful, that's the exercise. Thanks dear Moxi for coming to visit and taking the time to leave me a hug! Your comment feels like a hug!
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-04 15:12:11 
  
you are so wise,
that is because you have
"dealt"
with so much
in your life

intersting, and so true!
Im going to go take a hot shower!
have a great day!
I hope you dont get carded!

Posted by  roe  on 2009-11-04 11:33:30 
  
You causes giggles to bubble up in me! A treasure of wit dear Roe.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-04 15:13:56 
  
Interesting is an understatement.
I am grateful for gratitude, I agree.
I believe Carl Jung mucked around with both Tarot and the Tao for a couple of decades. Ultimately he commented that there was something of value there but couldn't define what it was.
Negativity is a meme? Indeed?
In Chinese astrology I believe that I am a snake with the sign of water. Make of that what you will!?!?!
Self reflection from specific perspectives is a part of driving long distances for me. It rarely actually resolves specific questions or circumstances. However it absolutely informs the way I think about people and the way I behave towards them as well as myself.
What's that quote from that movie I detest? Oh yeah. Goddess is as Goddess does.
Hoot, I made myself chuckle then.
Posted by  desinq  on 2009-11-04 16:54:57 
  
Of all the doctors of the mumbo jumbo, Jung is my favourite. He is the only one who worked from what's right rather than label what's wrong.
I think negativity is a meme because it jumps from person to person and is spreading out of control.
The snake! wow...charismatic, magnetic and irresistable... no wonder you have to keep moving!
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-04 21:18:07 
  
Yes, other wise the villagers riot at midnight and descend on my bus with fire brands and pitch forks, shouting, 'Burn the monster!'
Posted by  desinq  on 2009-11-12 18:48:38 
  
Checkmate.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-13 07:17:29 
  
Im so tired but love to study Tarot and Wiccan beliefs etc, will Bookmark and come back...YOU are AMAZING Greuine and a girl after my own heart :).x.
Posted by  Crimson_Read  on 2009-11-04 19:27:42 
  
Thanks babes, tired and you came by anyway? You are a dear!
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-04 21:18:49 
  
Very nice read Gre!
Posted by  mtvonca  on 2009-11-04 20:43:35 
  
Thanks Mtee, we were 'switcheroo'. I was reading you while you were leaving me a comment. An example of perfect balance once again.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-04 21:20:58 
  
It's cool when that happens.
Posted by  mtvonca  on 2009-11-04 23:18:07 
  
Another window to the soul of one who has become quite dear.
Minha amiginha
Posted by  TomasSISI  on 2009-11-05 10:10:48 
  
You are a generous man, dearest friend.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-05 16:59:23 
  
This card obviously will haunt you always, isn't it funny how that works, im haunted by the number 6, even have a son born on the 6,6,06 I don't feel bad things happen when the number 6 appears more just changes...

I have studies Tarot too, and have found much truth in their readings.

Blessings to you Genuine.

Sara.x.
Posted by  Crimson_Read  on 2009-11-05 16:38:18 
  
Yes I could see there is a magic about you babes.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-05 17:00:49 
  
hi,

funny... my brother was born 6-6-60... :p

i, too, believe in the power of the positive message and the positive thought and the strength these have to influence those around us.
unfortunately, we are, each of us, quite small on this bouncing ball, so that the expectations for the eventual good need to be reasonable.
i'm sure i could be less dour in real life: honestly, i tend to go 'round looking quite severe. maybe i'll try to do a little better in the 'spreading the positivity' department... :p

cheers!
:)
Posted by  badlydrawnstickman  on 2009-11-05 20:59:28 
  
We are, each of us, quite small but together we are a force of magnitude. I wonder what 'Mother Earth' would answer to the question, "Have humans made any impact on you dear Mother Earth." Would she not answer, "Impact? You've got to be kiddin' me!" So when you are going around looking severe dearest noble Sticks, think that if you were smiling you might just make a real difference in someone's else's life, and if they were to smile then they would make a difference and so on and so on and so on and so on and so on...!
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-09 12:04:04 
  
I do not know anything about Tarot reading Greunie, but gosh - you are such an inspiration for us all. I love your outlook on life, everytime when I read your blogs I feel I have learned something again.
Posted by  Angie_vV  on 2009-11-07 19:04:47 
  
Thank you my darlin' for giving me such sweetness. I hear the gentle swish of grace whenever I 'see' you.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-09 12:07:37 
  
I do not know much about the card but I do know much about gratitude. Many times people who are positive like you and I are dubbed as huding behind a mask, but really it is the fact that we find the beauty in simple things that some may over look. Sure we all have problems but to harbor a sense of passion, gratitude, and respect for life makes life easier and is a blessing...Five stars...Love your wisdom:)
Posted by  michelle8angels  on 2009-11-08 19:29:26 
  
What can I add to your wise words except bow lightly to a fellow spirit, beautiful Michelle.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-09 12:09:01 
  
Wonderful and inspiring blog. Thank you for that.
Posted by  LuckyJulia  on 2009-11-09 11:36:56 
  
Thanks Julia, I appreciate that you visited me and love it that you left me a comment.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-09 12:10:30 
  
That is so wonderful! What you wrote. It made me feel good all over. I try to be thankful for all I have. You are so very intelligent. But then I already knew that. You have helped me so much.
Posted by  depressedgirl  on 2009-11-09 19:02:27 
  
Feeling good all over! A perfect moment. I am so happy that my story gave you sunshine to warm by. Thank you for visiting and leaving me some joy!
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-12 14:30:41 
  
Greunie:
I don't often comment on your blogs but I DO
read them daily. I just wanted to say that I find U uplifting
and inspirational.

You should write your own column in a daily paper. I love
your style, truly.
funnyman
Posted by  funnyman57  on 2009-11-10 00:41:56 
  
Hey I am keeping your words and you can't have them back. I am going to put them in my treasure box and enjoy them whenever I want. Thanks dear friend.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-12 14:32:42 
  
Have never gotten into Tarot reading myself... but now you've gotten me curious and will have to investigate it. Dunno if I believe in it, or if I'll get it to "work," but it's an interesting thing to know.

And it makes me happy that someone else giggles at coincidences, too.
Posted by  dreadnaught  on 2009-11-12 12:20:03 
  
Yes it seems there is a talent to Tarot. I was not gifted. It took me a bit to accept since I loved the images and feel of the cards. 'The Tower' is another favourite card of mine. I would love to know which of the cards attract you if you ever get into it.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-12 14:41:59 
  
Just to but in for a sec.
Mine is the XII of the major arcana or hanged man. However!
Posted by  desinq  on 2009-11-12 18:55:16 
  
The Hanged man signifies moving away beyond limited normal consciousness.
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-13 07:22:53 
  
Co-incidences are lovely magical happenings meaning relatively nothing to anyone else but the person that is discovering their own personal co-incidence. I love them, they make me giggle.=pretty
It taught me obsessing with regret will cause blindness to what is good in life. It whispered lessons about gratitude and warnings of taking things for granted.=true

Upon rising every day and sleeping for the night, instead of running through all the things you don%u2019t have, all the problems posing anxiety, all the horror on earth, all the negative issues around you, all the people who have angered, harmed, disrespected, hated and ridiculed you, dare to search for something different.=true too.

good opening and middle. upliftin' as all hell.

a now absent blogger suggested a, "happy folder" on your desktop when one gets to feelin' blue, stuffed with all manner of electronic treats and pick me ups.
Posted by  bloodintheeyes  on 2009-11-13 01:41:57 
  
Thank you, I am so glad that I spread smiles. I am hoping to start a smile-virus which will become a pendemic. I appreciate that you took the time to share with me some of your reactions, it is as rewarding 'as all hell'! Loved it!
Posted by  greunie  on 2009-11-13 07:30:28 
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