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Our 8th wedding anniversary was this past Sunday, May 25 and he forgot and said he thought it was on May 26. I wasnt too upset, just a little. But what really made me mad was how inconsiderate he was all this past weekend. Most of the time my husband is a good guy, but there are moments when he can be such an a** that I wonder if Im really going to be married to him until one of us dies.
My husband isnt mean, or abusive. But he makes me mad because he's inconsiderate and completely takes me for granted. He was gone practically all this weekend, and when he was asked if he would work an extra day ( on sunday, our anniversary) he said yes. SO not only did he agree to work on our anniversary, but he didnt get home until after midnight, he was drunk, and instead of going to sleep or even checking to see if I was asleep, he goes downstairs, probably to look at those awful dirty movies that disgust the heck out of me. I got up and it was about 2am and I walked over to the basement door and called out " what are you doing?" and he said " nothing " and I asked him if he was looking at naked people on the internet he said no. Yeah whatever. I wanted to turn the light off on him so he could be in the dark downstairs but I took some sleeping pills instead and headed to bed.
I dreamed that I was fighting with him and I told him all these things that were going through my mind: You're an asshole, no wonder your first marriage broke up, no wonder your stupid first wife had an affair, you drove her to it!!! If I won the lottery I would pack up and get the F out of here and leave you by yourself with your porno!!!! WHat a way to spend your wedding anniversary.
I woke up at 8a and I was still tired, but got up anyways. He was asleep on the couch and didnt get up until 11 or so. This was yesterday. Since the dummy thought our anniversary was yesterday, we were supposed to ride the motorcycle over to this middle of nowhere bar and grill and have lunch. Of course we didnt go, but he was being very sorry and he was trying to be super nice to me. I wasnt being very talkative but got over it by the afternoon. He bought KFC for dinner and got me a chocolate parfait. Then he asked me if I wanted to go to home depot and walk around. I knew this meant I could go buy stuff. So we went and I got me a bag of garden soil and some plants.
Super romantic. 
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Posted by greencat on 2008-05-27 15:33:54 | Rating: | Views: 85
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Awww, hugs, he sounds like my husband, basically a good guy but sooo annoyingly inconsiderate, good days and bad days eh! love to you x
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Posted by pixiepatch
on 2008-05-27 16:22:22
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After eight years together I can see that happening..Yet hubby and I have been together for nearly fifteen and I really don't get too excited if I don't get anything...As long as there is love between us, it's all good...
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Posted by Hollis
on 2008-05-29 07:59:00
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The funny thing about Craig and me is neither one of us remember our anniversary. It is so weird. But of course this year when we were separated I thought of it all day, and cried most of the day. We have been married 8 1/2 yrs. Never remembered it, except for this past one.
I can understand why you felt like you did.
I wish that I knew why men are sometimes so inconsiderate.
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Posted by Fancie
on 2008-05-29 14:08:17
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