Thanks Lois, I appreciate your attention. I'm working on an extensive detailed post. Stay tuned. (posted in
ANATOMY OF DIVORCE - A Eulogy)
No offense taken... I think that some people are JUST MAD and always looking for a fight. They would rather be fighting tnan be happy. In any event, earplugs won't help. The damage is done and the end is past.
Thanks,
Gary (posted in
ANATOMY OF DIVORCE - Sex Denial As Punishment)
I just don't get it!!! Do people think that they are supposed to feel the kind of emotional upheval that comes when your in love at age 16 or 18? When you have reached 17 years of togetherness in a relationship the things that should matter are the respect for each other, the values you each display and the integrity of the relationship. Those things should take over as priorities and that immature feeling of titilation should be left for the teenagers who don't know any better.
If your husban is a descent, caring, respinsible person you should find that as paramount in your lives and stop dwelling on platitudes like "WHO AM I"? What you have is what you should be looking for.
We aren't meant to be alone and we aren't meant to be constantly searching for just another hormonal heat-up. Take what you have and BE HAPPY. (posted in
Why am I so scared?)