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Living in a bubble
Have you ever feel like you're in your own world. Everyone has his own comfort zone, his own circle of friends and so forth. But what if you becoming too comfortable and too happy with your comfort zone that you starting to see the outside world as alien world. I've been hanging out with my group of people all my life. I love them and there's no where else I would rather be. I take pride in being a part of that group. I live with them, I eat with them, I party with them, I work with them, my whole life is them. But lately, when I see other people, I look down at them with condescend as if they're lower than us. I'm starting to feel as if we're better than anybody else.
I've never talked about this with anyone in my group because I was pretty sure that I'm the only one who feels this way and I thought  this is a phase that will eventually go away. But as days go by, I realize it doesnt get any better.
A part of me understand tha the world is a big place, and I should go out there, explore, meet different people and experience. But another part of me feel so comfortable in my own little bubble that I sometimes feel like there's nothing better out there.
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Posted by girlytiff on 2008-03-21 22:49:17 | Rating: n/a | Views: 57


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Posted by
roe
on 2008-03-21 22:56:00
 
I think you must be getting restless and you wonder if there is more out there for you...I believe you already know the answer. Sounds like your world is small, safe and secure, sometimes perhaps boring, maybe you need to be reminded there is a big world out there.
 
 

Posted by
brainstormer
on 2008-03-21 23:49:06
 
Restless. Good word. I am on the other side of that bubble looking in. I dont have a group to be like that with. But, still, people accuse me of looking down on them maybe only cuz I set modest standards. I tend to be a bit critical and cynical...but I dont want to think Im "ungroupable". But, I never had a group.
 
 

Posted by
hampton
on 2008-06-18 12:33:12
 
I can relate to this a lot. I almost feel like if I don't move to somewhere new soon...I'll never move. I like you enjoy my friends as well however; I feel like I still could learn so much about myself if I could experience something new! Great blog!
 
 


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