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I have the most selfish sister-in-law in the history of sister-in-laws! The one word I would use to describe her is BITCH!!!
When she first came to this country, from Mexico, she came here with nothing but the clothes on her back. She had no money, NOTHING!! And who helped? I did. I took her to Target and spent about $250 on her. She bought some clothes, shoes, and daily need items. I did not even get a thank you. And she never paid me back. I let her and her boyfriend stay in our house rent free for the first month then we made them pay rent. I am kind of a clean freak and I think that is ok. I have 5 kids and two of them are babies so I like my floors clean. So we clean every Saturday. We would ask that they only help clean the downstair because the upstairs is just my bedroom and my children bedrooms, my bathroom, and a small family room that they never used. They would only use the downstairs. Every Saturday my husband would knock on the door and they would have the door locked and not come out until we were done. So alright whatever. They would also use our spare car. They would never put gas in it and never offered to help pay when something went wrong with the car. When we decided to sell the car we asked them if they wanted to buy it--they only had to take over the payments not give us a penny--and they decided they didn't want to so OK whatever.
They moved out shortly after that. And that's the end right?? Not quite!!
When my husband left, in December, to go get his immigration issues taken care of I thought ok she does not work she will be able to help me once in a while with the babies. Yeah right! She has not come over once. And when she sees us out walking around she acts as if we do not exist.
This past weekend I went over to her house and confronted her and she said the reason she hasn't come over to see her nephews is because it was cold and she has to cook. I didn't know what to say I was speechless that that was her excuse! I was like are you serious?? Because it was cold and you had to cook! Give me a fucken break!!!! I wrote her a letter today expressing my hurt feelings but have had no response. I thought at least I got out what I had to say and the issue is done! But I don't feel that way! She has really hurt my feelings! I thought ok I wrote the letter and now I will just forget all the problems, Like its done its over. But I don't feel that way. I guess time will tell if this relationship can be mended but the ball is now in her court!
That's all for now,
ME
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Posted by ggarcia on 2008-05-21 14:05:03 | Rating: | Views: 108
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