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Okay so all you'll know from Cheb's blog, her crazy auntie is down from Liverpool, and you'll also know that she is less than happy about it!
Auntie hates me, its safe to say that. Well...maybe hate is a strong word. She certainly disaproves, and as with most northerners, she doesn't hold back, she says exactly what she thinks, regardless of its impact.
She thinks I am a dirty old man, who chased a girl 18 years my junior for the sheer sake of it, pinned her down and took her against her will, impregnating her against her will and now I am forcing her to leave her mum behind and live here with me, where I will control her and boss her about for the rest of her life. It sounds depressing and in parts quite crude, but that is how her auntie sees me for sure.
Cheb hates confrontation, but only for the simple reason that she gets worked up really easily and she hates feeling that way. She used to suffer from severe panic attacks and with the baby and all, she is ever more careful to avoid volatile situations.
Therefore she is siting through this visit, just hoping that her auntie doesnt say anything to piss her off - because if she does, Lord help her...hell hath no fury like a woman who is pregnant!
I talked to her at length about this tonight. She was saying that she wishes she could just sit her auntie down and explain to her what we are really about, what I am actually about and how happy we both are. She wishes she could make her see what a great guy I am and all the stuff that people on here seem to see about what a great couple we are.
Whereas its sweet and all that she wants to do that, I have told her not to bother. It bothers me a little what her auntie thinks of me, but not enough for that. There's no need to justfiy us to anyone, or defend us. Not everyone is gonna like me, not everyone was ever gonna be fine about this relationship - for some the age gap alone is enough. Cheb cannot understand why or how someone could not like me, and it bothers her but me...I accept that not everyone will. Its not that important. What is, is that she stays calm. maybe one day her aunt will come round (actually meeting me before passing judgement might help for a start!), maybe she wont...to be honest, I couldnt give a shite!
This time in 22 days I will have my lady and my baby in my arms and I cant wait.
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