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my tribute on 2008-05-31 19:55:41 |
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anotherdaze - glad you enjoyed it! what i have is indeed...true love xxx Dave xxx
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my tribute on 2008-05-31 19:54:58 |
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whiteknight - see thats the trouble with ol' romantics like you and me..we well up no matter where were are, over the crappest of soppy poems, lol xxx Dave xxx
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my tribute on 2008-05-31 19:54:06 |
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Hollis - fear not, I will never take it for granted, its much too precious! x love ya too, we love being a part of thoughts xxx Dave xxx
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1st week on 2008-05-31 19:52:40 |
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anotherdaze - welcome and thanks for commenting! You are so, so right. I cannot imagine how any man could walk away from this awesome thing, and feel nothing, they must be totally heartless or made of stone. I miss him just overnight!
It is very frustrating too, not being able to put into words how it all feels, but as you said...it has to be felt...words just wont do.
Nice to meet you xxx Dave xxx
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1st week on 2008-05-31 19:49:50 |
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Hollis - you're so right about me needing to change my thinking...besides I have so much to live for I dont think I'll be going anywhere for some time yet! In three years I'll be watching Cheb graduate...and one day I hope to watch Stanley follow in her footsteps! Thanks for stopping by xxxx Dave xxxx
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Strap-ons deep, mountains high on 2008-05-31 06:02:08 |
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Hahahahahahaha...oh man, you crack me up. Great post. I just wanted to point out that most women turn into a praying mantis once a relationship is established...a man gets used to having his head 'bitten off' lol x except of course for my beautiful lady (makes kissy noises and hopes to be forgiven). Good luck with the next date mate, I'm off for a sausage stottie with oodles of HP broon (Geordie accent) sauce...mmm! x Dave x
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Life, Thought of the Day.... on 2008-05-30 05:08:55 |
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Agreed KP - I'd have the remnants of a curry in one hand, and a bottle of Newcastle Brown Ale in the other! Haha!
Saw this on the bumper of a car the other day, sorta fits with this-
"When I die, I want to go peacefully, in my sleep..................
not screaming, like the passengers in my car!"
Love that. And while we're sharing humour, on the same day I saw this bumper sticker too
"If you can read this...I've lost my caravan!"
Happy Friday guys xxx Dave xxx
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my tribute on 2008-05-30 04:57:05 |
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angelwings - hiya. Yeah, we were just saying we need to post a picture of the three of us, so I will get onto that x We are all getting plenty of rest and will all be together properly real soon x
thanks for stopping by x Dave x
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my tribute on 2008-05-30 04:55:36 |
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lampoil - thank you :-)) xxx Dave xxx
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1st week on 2008-05-30 04:54:49 |
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KP - thank you, your words are very reassuring to me and I appreciate you taking the time to do that. Thanks x David x
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1st week on 2008-05-30 04:37:18 |
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angelwings - thank you thats very sweet. I have slept properly since then and I'm feeling much more...sane! Haha x
xx Dave xx
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1st week on 2008-05-30 04:36:20 |
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deepintought - thank you. Man, I look at this post now and I literally dont remember writing it, I had drunk that much coffee! Haha x I will leave it up and yes, I will always be a loving and dedicated daddy, of that there is no doubt.
xx Dave xx
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The Question Of The Day on 2008-05-30 04:30:03 |
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Okay...this one is easy.
The last time Cheb was up in Newcastle with me, we went for a walk on Tynemouth beach in heavy wind and rain. I made the suggestion that it could be fun to go on Tynemouth Pier. Now, its a flat concrete structure, not one of those metal things on legs. Its not alot higher than the waves around it on a rough day and gives the feeling that theres very little between you and the sea. It that stretches a mile out of the River Tyne into the North Sea, which is a rough sea at the best of times.
All the way out to the end we were battered by waves and soaked through. It was an amazing feeling to be at the end, standing on a concrete circle in the middle of the sea and at the mercy of nature.
I dont think I have ever laughed so much (nor has Cheb) nor will I ever forget standing there with her but in hindsight...it was very foolish. Although she was wrapped up warm, she was still pregnant, and when we got back to the beach they shut the pier because the man said it was too dangerous.
Probably not the best suggestion I've ever made, but I'm sure Cheb will agree...it was romantic as hell!
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I need to appauld all of us on 2008-05-29 09:26:43 |
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I marvel at how so many people, so geographically far apart...can be so close. This is a wonderful family here, and we feel honoured to be a part of it x
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Do you want the job or the title? on 2008-05-29 07:56:10 |
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Oh thats not good...I hope he wasnt in earshot when she said that! She doesnt seem to have alot of faith, in anyone really...its sad, but not your fault.
I dont know how you get by in such a soul destroying environment...
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Do you want the job or the title? on 2008-05-29 06:08:16 |
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I completely see where you are coming from.
The thing is, there is a difference between a father and a dad, and although you are not his biological father, you have gone above and beyond being his dad. You have the title and you've done the job, very well I'd say. Any man who wants to be a dad and puts the effort in, is a good dad in my book. The thing is, dad is only 50% of the bigger job that is being a child's parents. The other half is mum, and I think she has actually let him down a little on this one. I mean...you had at least tried to save something.
Whether you are willing or able to find some money from somwhere now, is completely up to you, but I dont think its your sole responsibilty to foot the bill for your sons education because your wife messed up. I hope you dont mind me saying but you lay too much on your own shoulders, its a two way street and requires effort from both parties.
Whatever happens, he is lucky to have you, because you most definitely 'get it' too. You understand what it means to be a dad
x Dave x
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Question Of The Day on 2008-05-29 05:17:49 |
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Oh and thanks for the 'perfect guy' description (blushes) xxx Dave xxx
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Question Of The Day on 2008-05-29 05:16:50 |
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Ooh err...you'll have to bear with me while this old, frazzled brain tries to remember all the people on my friends list - apologies to anyone I might miss out!
Okay, in no particular order then...
pixiepatch - bright and friendly, and always leaves lovely comments to make me smile :-)
deepintought - friendly and very smart - knows just what to say and when! :-)
southernsun - honest and sometimes quite funny, even when its not clear whether shes trying to be!
angelwings - funny, sweet and inspiring
wee_star - sweet and very determined - stronger than maybe she thinks herself
Ellie - ahh Ellie, a lovely woman with a heart of gold...what a lady
HungryHeart - a brave, selfless and inspiring man...like me, he understands love in its purest form
Bullseye - a thoroughly decent guy, polite, strong and determined - I would hope to be a dad like he is to his kids.
KP - brave and inspiring and a lovely woman
Whiteknight - a lovely fella, and a dear friend to both me and Cheb...patience of a saint and a big ol heart!
ColoradoDreamin - a beautiful woman, right words at the right time, always...spiritual and inspirational to many here
Stanleythomas - my...beautiful boy and crowning achievement - better stop there before I get the photos out!
and of course...last but not least...
chebtastic1 - my lady, my strength, inspiration and the reason for my smile.
Who's diary would I like to read? Hmm...HungryHeart to see where he gets his strength, or maybe Whiteknight, for the same reason!
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Storm on 2008-05-28 16:26:58 |
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beautiful. just...beautiful. thank you x
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flying without wings on 2008-05-28 15:32:20 |
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Mamacita - hell yes i do! (of course I wont...hehe) lol x Dave x
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flying without wings on 2008-05-28 15:31:01 |
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pixiepatch - yeah, he's doing very well, I'm so proud. I think maybe the bond is extra strong cause by rights he should still be in the womb. Thanks for stopping by xxx Dave xxx
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Shift 1 on 2008-05-28 13:27:02 |
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Wow, they are fantastic! We've got Britain's Got Talent going on at the moment, and I'll do a post on the one I like from it to show you ours. Its a great show I think.
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A little spare time. on 2008-05-28 07:59:45 |
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Ahh...I lost my cat last month and it broke my heart, she was beautiful. I swore no more pets, but me and my lady are thinking of getting a retired greyhound when Stan is a bit older and maybe a cat too...after all, they're no trouble really are they?
You write really nicely, its almost like I can see what you're seeing when you write.
Thanks also from me and my family, for your congrats on our blogs and thoughts etc...
Have a great day too...hope you have better weather than here in Nottingham! I missed all the sunshine in Newcastle these last few days too!
:-( hehe
x x x Dave x x x
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Regrets? on 2008-05-28 07:39:56 |
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Where true love is involved there can never be regrets...the two just dont go together, do they x
nice post x
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Question of the Day on 2008-05-28 07:38:24 |
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whiteknight - if i or cheb get it...you're next in line, so be prepared! lol x
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Some more facts on Eurovision on 2008-05-28 07:36:11 |
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Ooh...I missed this blog!
Eurovision has become something of a frustration for us Brits now...have a read of Rose22's blog on it.
Back in the day (sounding very old now) it did, as you have shown, introduce people to the world of music who turned out to be amazing performers...now it is a joke to us.
The last time we won was, I believe, 1996 or 1997 at it was katrina and the Waves 'Walking On Sunshine.'
The thing is now, we used to be close to what people considered the capital, the central location of Europe, ie, France. The European Courts are there etc...but now the whole geography has changed...there are alot more countries getting involved from eastern europe (estonia, latvia etc...) and there are so many of them, the western side have no chance when it comes to votes (which are absolutely political. I mean...its not based on the music, thats for sure!)
The only reason we are allowed to go through to the final automatically is because of the amount of funding we put into it - money I think is wasted.
The presenter Terry Wogan wont be doing it again and to me it wont be the same without his piss taking and sarcasm so I, and many others probably wont bother with it again.
I have, and always will say, we have more in common, and a closer bond, with America, then we do with our closest neighbours.
I guess we will just have to put it down to a past triumph, as with many things - something we once ruled at but no longer do - and leave it to Russia and all those other non-European countries to go for it - and pay for it! Hehe x
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My Question of the Day is.... on 2008-05-28 06:14:22 |
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I'd like us home, together before much longer...thats all I'd change x
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My Question of the Day is.... on 2008-05-28 06:13:40 |
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Right now at this point? Absolutely nothing. Not a thing. Except maybe that Cheb and Stan are well and come home soon, because she is still exhausted and he is still so fragile.
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Question of the Day on 2008-05-28 05:49:45 |
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Ooohh....Happy Ending! Long, good choice! I like Mika's Big Girls You Are Beautiful...
"Get yourself to the buterfly lounge, find yourself a big laayyydeee..."
Definitely my philosophy, hehe x
Okay, I had to really, really think about this one. I love music, all kinds and I am a whizz in a pub quiz when the question is about music. There is a soundtrack to my life!
But...it has to be...Foreigner, 'Waiting For A Girl Like You' because for me and Cheb...its our song (or one of them!).
The first night we spent together we danced around a hotel room to it and for the three or so minutes of the song no one else in the world existed, it was bliss, and she has since said that was the first time in her life she ever felt totally loved. Some of the words...
"You're so good
When we make love its understood
Its more than a touch,
Or a word we say
Only in dreams can it be this way
When you love someone...
And I know its right
From the moment I wake up
Til deep in the night
There's nowhere on earth
That I'd rather be
Than holding you, tenderly
I've been waiting,
For a girl like you
To come into my life...'
Ahh bliss...we will dance to that at our wedding one day.
Sorry - I took up half your page!
Lots of love
Dave xxx
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Question of the Day - all responses welcome on 2008-05-27 07:06:31 |
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Well...mine is geordiedreamer. The Geordie bit is obvious to anyone from the UK - people from Newcastle are called 'Geordies', kinda like Londoners are 'cockneys' and Liverpudlians are 'scousers' Long story as to why we are called that...and the dreamer bit was because when I set my account up, I was dreaming of my future with my lady and our baby...now he's here its better than all my dreams.
I can tell you that Chebtastic1, my lady, is called so because of me. Chebs is the Geordie word for erm...boobs. And I call her chebtastic because well, she is! Haha x As for our boy's blog 'stanleythomas' - well...its his name.
Cant wait to hear what KP's question will be tomorrow, this is a great idea!
Dave xxx
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flying without wings on 2008-05-27 04:29:06 |
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angelwings - haha, I'm glad you're enjoying my posts so much! He is, an absolute angel. Funnily enough, my mum said the same about me - she would get me settled, nod off herself and then I'd start up crying! Maybe he's saving it up until we get him home, then he will unleash it all and show us what he's made of.
The song...one of Cheb's favourite and I used to poke fun, but this week suddenly it doesnt seem so silly...
I like the last line 'you're the place my life begins, and you'll be where it ends...' sums it up really.
Thanks for stopping by
xx Dave xx
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flying without wings on 2008-05-27 04:24:57 |
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KP - Yeah, I aim to take it all in and every second has come to be so special that time itself seems to have slowed for me...every second with them means so much. Does that make sense? Haha x I have taken a ton of pictures....just need to get round to uploading them! xx David xx
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flying without wings on 2008-05-27 04:23:29 |
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Hi EsayToSay - Its a very special time, the best of my 44 years on this planet. I am definitely savouring every moment! Dave xx
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flying without wings on 2008-05-27 04:22:17 |
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ColoradoDreamin - yeah, I am savouring every moment. It is stunning how quickly they change!
Thanks for stopping by xx Dave xx
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Eyes to break a thousand hearts.... on 2008-05-26 17:39:33 |
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angelwings - hiya. Yeah, I have told her not to worry about emails and blogging etc but she says it helps her and she's stubborn too - hey, so long as shes happy! Lol x All the sleepless nights will be totally worth it, for such a beautiful son x lots of love x David x
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Eyes to break a thousand hearts.... on 2008-05-26 17:37:38 |
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ColoradoDreamin - it is a magical time, thats the perfect word to describe it! And I do often feel (and Cheb feels it too) that there is a strong connection between us. Even when we have been 160 miles apart I have known when something was troubling her, even when she told me she was fine. So hopefully I will be able to tell when she needs me and be there in any way I can be. We do have an amazing love. Thanks for your well-wishes x David x
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Eyes to break a thousand hearts.... on 2008-05-26 17:34:32 |
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pixiepatch - yep, I have a great mum in law, I'm very lucky! And yep...we have many built in baby sitters in mind, haha! x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-26 17:32:57 |
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Hi Hollis - Yes, he is gorgeous! But then I am bias! More pics will follow real soon x Thanks for the well wishes x David x
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Once a worrier...always a worrier... on 2008-05-25 20:31:55 |
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I'm so proud of you, really I am xxx I love you xxx
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY BOY!!!! on 2008-05-24 18:06:42 |
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Happy Birthday Scottie xxx much love, Dave, Cheb & Stan xxxxxxxx our thoughts are with you xxx
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2nd hand cold turkey on 2008-05-24 11:30:00 |
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when Cheb quit it was partly for me. Had she known she was pregnant she would definitely have quit right away anyway.
But if she had tried to quit ONLY for me, no way would she have managed it. She says now that there were a million reasons why, but that she was successful because she didnt make a drama of it - she told herself she would try and if she failed, she would try again. It sounds like she is trying to make you feel guilty now she is struggling to get through it. Now, you may have nagged her about smoking, and maybe even have nagged her to quit, hell I did Cheb...but you didnt force her and if she is suffering as a result, it is not your fault. Also remember though, that withdrawls when someone stops smoking are quite horrendous and Cheb found herself snapping at people and getting way over emotional (her own admission), knowing she was doing it but unable to help it. Maybe thats the case. Either way...she wont be successful if she is only doing it for another excuse to yell at you, or for something else to blame you for. Having read all your blog (took some reading, but worth it) I did want to add something controversial (to some anyway) and thats that you have been critised for not doing enough to help your marriage, for the way you have treated your wife, but its my opinion that maybe your wife has been neglectful of your needs - after all, I dont believe that people look elsewhere if they are happy in their marriage. I think you are doing all you can and I think she ought to acknowledge that a little more. Sadly, it wont work if only one of you is trying...ask Cheb about that!
Back to the smoking thing...if she has a go at you, let it slide, if she starts smoking again...let her. Its her lungs and a shame if she wants to clog them up, but...rise above it mate.
Take care
Dave x
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For My sister. on 2008-05-24 07:42:51 |
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Wow...please congratulate your sister for me, and congratulations to you too! My lady just had our son, three days ago and it truly is a magical time!
Congrats again and all the best x Dave x
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my grand entrance! on 2008-05-23 06:41:39 |
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suddenly I'm seeing you go off to Uni!! xx
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Bad day on 2008-05-23 05:22:09 |
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sorry to hear you're sad hunny...hope you feel better soon. maybe your just making room for bigger and better things. Keep smiling! :-) xxx
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-22 17:27:31 |
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Hi Ellie - lovely to hear from you and thanks for your congrats, here and via email God is indeed GREAT! and my son...is beautiful. Thanks for stopping by friend x Dave x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-22 17:25:50 |
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harriboy - yep, coulda been a disaterous day, was hanging by a thread at one point, but thank God...a very happy outcome. Thanks for stopping by and commenting x Dave x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-22 17:24:28 |
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shemelts - thank you. I really believe he will grow stronger very quickly - I'm sure its not possible but to me he seems to have grown a little already! We will always be able to lean on each other. I feel so blessed. Thanks for commenting x David x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-22 17:22:14 |
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deepinthought - thanks. Yep, he's here and what an entrance...I suspect he will be something of an extrovert when he grows up - that must be the geordie in him! Lol x I have slept for a while today and am all well and refreshed for whenever and however they need me. Thanks for stopping by x David x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-22 17:18:34 |
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pixiepatch - thank you for stopping by and for your well wishes. I really appreciate it xxx David xxx
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-22 17:14:57 |
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Cheb darling - never ever apologise again! You have given me the most precious, priceless gift a man could ever get, and I am so, so proud of you and our son. Thank you so much. I'll do you both proud, I promise.
I love you sweetie xxxxxxxxx
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for my boy with love from daddy on 2008-05-22 17:12:17 |
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Ellie - yes, I cant wait to hold the little guy in my arms either...but alas not yet. Wont be long though I hope. For now I'm content just to look at him! Thanks for stopping by x David x
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for my boy with love from daddy on 2008-05-22 17:10:32 |
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ColoradoDreamin - yeah, I've always been a Billy Joel fan and heard this song a few years ago. When I was looking at Stan, I kept singing it in my head. Its a beautiful song x Thanks for your comments and support x David x
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Update on 2008-05-22 17:08:29 |
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Hi Ellie! - Thanks for stopping by to comment! Cheb thanks you for your email too, she had chance to read it but not reply yet. Thank you for your wishes, prayers and friendship. Take care x David x
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Update on 2008-05-22 17:07:09 |
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ovethehillandfaraway - thanks. We are told he's doing well so far, as strong as can be expected and fingers crossed he's gonna be fine. Thank you for your continued prayers x David x
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Update on 2008-05-22 17:05:15 |
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deepinthought - thanks thats sweet x thank you for stopping by x David x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-22 03:49:38 |
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overthehillandfaraway - thank you very much for your blessing and wishes, we are very, very happy. Thanks for stopping by xxx David xxx
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-22 01:55:57 |
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angelwings - thank you! I am overwhelmed by the support on here and so is Cheb. What a WONDERFUL bunch of people!
Thanks for your wishes and congrats
best wishes
David x
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Update on 2008-05-22 01:54:00 |
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anglewings - thank you x there will be many more happy posts! :-) nothing but happy posts from now on! Thank you for your well wishes and for stopping by xxx David xxx
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Update on 2008-05-22 01:29:15 |
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HungryHeart - thank you. Cheb will be so pleased you said that, as she has told me her blog is about showing people how great life can be and making people smile. If you are doing that...she is happy x Thanks for stopping by xxx David xxx
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Update on 2008-05-22 01:27:44 |
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ColoradoDreamin - thanks for your prayers. Really, I've never much believed in religion and God and that - but I asked people to pray and they did and look at the outcome! You all even have Cheb wondering! What an achievement!
Thank you once again, for having us in your thoughts. Peace and much, much love x David x
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Update on 2008-05-22 01:21:05 |
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BootLady - Thanks, I did! Only five hours or so (its 6am here now) but it was five hours of great sleep!
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-22 01:19:09 |
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KP - You're right. The minute we shook hands that was it - no more fear, no more nerves, just an instant bond. Amazing stuff I'm overwhelmed.
Thank for stopping by and commenting x David x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-22 01:17:28 |
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Bullseye - thanks, I appreciate that. I will pass on your best wishes to Cheb when I see her later today x thanks for stopping by xxx
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-21 20:01:11 |
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Hi EasyToSay - yeah, a pretty surreal day or so for sure! I will pass on your best wishes and thank you, for stopping by and for your kind words x David x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-21 18:18:13 |
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BootLady - thank you x the good vibes and prayers worked in the best possible way...now I wanna know exactly what people were praying for lol! The power of prayer...wow I am in awe x thanks for your congrats x Dave x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-21 17:47:07 |
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Thank you Meredith x I'm still buzzing, havent slept in 2 days...do I care? Nope! I am totally high on life right now. Need to sleep but just wanna go back to the hospital! Haha x thanks for stopping by and commenting x David x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-21 17:17:53 |
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cheers! i think so too...been waiting my whole life for this, and i might be getting on a bit i guess, but i think i'm up for the challenge x thanks for stopping by x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-21 15:06:51 |
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Hi Mamacita! Thank you! It just hit me that I'm a dad, and I started crying in front of my future mum in law haha! Thanks for your well wishes and for stopping by x David x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-21 14:56:06 |
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thank you...its been an amazing day!
Thanks for stopping by xxx David xxx
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-21 14:46:52 |
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Thanks WK! And thanks for your thoughts, prayers and well-wishes x
David x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-21 14:25:36 |
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Thank you so much, I'm just buzzing! I will give them a hug from you! Thank you
Much love
david x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-21 14:12:57 |
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Thank you! I'll never forget that little hand holding onto mine and I will always be there for him. He and Cheb are my life.
Thanks for stopping by xxx
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homosexals-eh cants this anymore on 2008-05-21 14:01:58 |
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My baby ws born this morning and if one day he turns to me and says 'daddy I'm gay', I will love him no less than right at this moment. One thing I do know, is gay or straight, I will spend my whole life, all my energy, protecting him from biggot like you.
Whats it like up there passing judgement? Sheesh
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Love defined on 2008-05-19 14:09:21 |
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That is a good one. I cannot bear even to try to imagine what my life would be like without Cheb in my future...and I literally cannot remember what it was like before she came along...how I was ever happy. I can only presume that I played at being happy a few times, but now I have it in its purest form. God I could go on and on but I wont...great post x
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I Told Her Today on 2008-05-19 14:01:07 |
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Being with N is so clearly what makes you happy. I think her repeating that was her confirming to you that she is thinking the same as you - the love is mutual but so is the concern for your wife. I good response I'd say, always best to get feelings out in the open and whatever happens next...good luck. x David x
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I Knew on 2008-05-17 09:48:51 |
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mark87 - I couldn't agree more! When you have the one...its for life and nothing gets in the way of it. Thanks for stopping by x
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I Knew on 2008-05-17 09:47:40 |
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Darling...when (not if, but when) I do propose, I will a, make sure you are not still married to someone else, and b, make sure it is alot more romantic than this...
Glad you liked...love you so much, miss you too xxx
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I'm Remembering, and I Miss You.. on 2008-05-16 20:26:54 |
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beautiful post...and i (and im sure cheb) can totally relate - the only consolation is that when we are together, its all the more special x take care x
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Superman Redux on 2008-05-16 16:41:46 |
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A good philosophy where there is no other option. My only advice? Don't let it always be that way - you only get one shot at life...dont look back in 20 years and think 'I wish I'd...' think 'I'm glad I...' ya know? Best of luck x
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Superman Redux on 2008-05-16 09:26:06 |
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I see, like me, you are something of a romantic.
So...whats more important, love or responsibilty and duty? Hmm...its not as straightforward as it seems that one.
As far as my relationship with Cheb goes, nothing is more important since I met her than my love for her. It supercedes everything, dominating my thoughts, my life and my future. All that matters is my lady and my son. Would I walk in front of a train for her? Hell yes, with not a millisecond of hesitation. Because I love her. And...because I feel a sense of responsibility towards her.
I suppose what I am trying to say (and doing a lousy job of it) is that to me...love and responsibility go hand in hand alot of the time. Like if you love someone, you have a responsibility to make sure you dont hurt them, dont let them down.
But when it comes down to every day responsibilities...maybe not so much. For me, I am not living in dreamland (though I wish sometimes I could, its much nicer at times!) so I acknowledge that responsibilities cant be ignored. You cant hurt people in the name of love and expect it to be okay, you cant spend all your money on a romantic gesture and then say you didnt pay your bill because you love your partner...life wont let you get away with that.
BUT when it comes to the crunch, to those life-changing moments, to those tests and defining moments of decision making...in my opinion...love should always rule out, ALWAYS. A man should always listen to his heart, hell anyone should. Your head will let you down, be wrong. Your heart? Your heart NEVER is.
I hope thats logical!
p.s. love the Superman movies....
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I may change my vote!!!!! on 2008-05-16 09:06:47 |
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hehe x
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I may change my vote!!!!! on 2008-05-16 09:06:22 |
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good plan...if you're looking for an extra state you could 'adopt' the UK too - we're closer to you guys than our own neighbours anyways!
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Introduction on 2008-05-16 07:35:15 |
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Welcome to thoughts.com...hope you like it, you sound very interesting xxx
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packing up and moving on on 2008-05-11 05:32:34 |
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Babe...bring anything you want with you. Really. Love you xxxx
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Want some cookies ? Sorry you can't have any on 2008-05-10 20:19:23 |
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Its incredible how many companies have no communication between departments.
Over here the department for work and pensions (who deal with benefits), a GOVERNMENT organisation (although why that should be surprising I dont know) are a classic example - if you talk to one person, hang up and ring back later in the day, it will be another person who has no idea what you're talking about.
As far as banks go, my brother made a good point the other day. He has just set up his own business and is doing really well - the banks are tripping over themselves to 'help' him with his money, but like he says, where were they this time last year when he was skint and needed a helping hand? They didnt wanna know him then, now they're his best friend, now he doesnt need them!
Good luck with the savings.
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An apology for Chebtastic1 on 2008-05-10 20:11:05 |
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I love this woman!!! Thanks for the chat darling, I cant wait to see you...sleep well angel xxxxxx
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proud parents...of a jar of pickles! on 2008-05-06 18:10:13 |
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Hmm...will I ever live that down? I suspect not, haha. Guess I will have to re-read that part of the book!
On a serious note, I'm glad you are okay, and as I told you from the start, this baby is gonna be fine...sad days are behind you, our baby was borne out of love, and will be born into love. Dare to believe it angel - its happening.
Love you so much xxxx
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Photograph. on 2008-05-03 18:28:51 |
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oops was meant to say 'david' (because thats my name!), I've just been talking to cheb and what can I say? I have her on my mind! Lol x
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Photograph. on 2008-05-03 18:27:29 |
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Your writing takes me away...wow, I love it, thanks so much for sharing xxx cheb xxx
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