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Life is so unfair. How can life hurt me so much? How can a guy treat me like this? Is it possible that a guy does not have a heart. How can a guy say I love you when it is not true? How can a guy make you feel special when he is just pretending? Why is it hurt so much?
It is so unfair. Lord, make him feel just a little of what I'm feeling. Please make him say sorry for all the things he did. I don't want him to suffer so much. Just make him realize how hurt I am. How bad he was to treat me like this. Lord, just make him feel what I'm feeling. That's all I ask...
Lord, make the pain go away. It hurt so much already.. I don't think I can handle this anymore. Lord, please just make me stop crying. Stop my heart from bleeding.
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Posted by gcmay on 2007-12-12 19:37:44 | Rating: | Views: 232
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gcmay look in a mirror! Can you see inside this person? Life is life and choices make if fair or not. You can not change anyone but like the mirror you must find a person with the values that you have. Someone who sees you as you see yourself in the mirror. The man who is for you will take his time to see who you really are. He will take his time and when you hear I love you something inside will tell you he speaks the truth. Look in the mirror... you deserve to smile... :-)
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Posted by tmar
on 2007-12-12 19:46:22
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hey, if i guy is making you feel this shitty about yourself, break up with him. he dosnt desvere you. your wroth more then him
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Posted by 14yearoldvampire
on 2007-12-12 20:39:31
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Dear GCMAY,
First let me say , I'm sorry you are hurting so badly.
Then I must say, forget this guy, stand up and find out why you feel you need a guy to make you feel good.
Men have two heads, and they really don't know how to use the one that holds their brains.
When we are young, we will say or do anything neccessary to achieve one thing from women. We will, for certain women put in the time, but once we accomplished what we set out for, we won't hesitate to drop you like a rock.
Quit worrying about boys for now. and go accomplish the things that you really want from life. While your working on achieving your goals, you will be more likely to meet a guy of your caliber and similar interests. Someone who will be more adept at understanding your needs, and who will care about your feelings.
Only in fairy tales do you kiss the frog and get a prince, all the real world has to work at their relationships together in order to make them end happily ever after.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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Posted by jwcj
on 2007-12-12 21:04:21
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my heart goes out to you sweetie. im so sorry that you are hurting
please watch the attached video...i find such comfort and peach and i pray that you will as well
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyheJ480LYA&feature= related
keep talking...he's listening
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Posted by renewed32
on 2007-12-13 00:39:43
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Thank you guys for the all the inspring and comforting words. It just hurt so much coz he is my first boyfriend. I waited for 23years to give my love to the right guy. And I thought He was the right one. I protected myself from hurting and here I am... feeling what I fear to feel.... BUt thanks guys..
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Posted by gcmay
on 2007-12-13 03:02:01
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Just move on NO GUY is worth your pain or your tears ,,,, Life goes on and you should too.....
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Posted by Unavezmas
on 2007-12-13 16:03:15
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Hello gcmay, greetings in the Precious Name of the Great God who made this world that we live in. I read your blog and I know that when we are hurt it makes us feel like we wnat to go away for a long time until we forget the pain but it is not possible so we just have to deal with it. I understand quite well how you feel. My advice to you is to try not to think so much about it, yes it is easy for me to say I am not in your position, no not at this moment but I have come to realize that the more we think about the pain the worse it becomes. At this time you need to involve yourself with activities that will keep you busy so that you could take your mind off of it. First talk to God about it and you will find that it is really wonderful to have someone to talk to. You could tell Him things that you don,t think you could tell anyone else and also you could talk to Him honestly, like Job did, if you are angry let Him know. Try not to go to bed every night thinking about it because when you are in bed, both late at night before you fall asleep, if you are able to fall asleep, and early in the morning when you awake, those are the times when it seems worse because you are in a quiet place so the pain is more pronounced. More importantly remember that you are still young and the person who hurt you does not deserve to have you, really thank God that he did it now and not after you decide to go further with the relationship, probably marriage. There are other guys out there who are worthy of your love and you will definitely find one of them if you are patient, don't rush in. Don't force yourself to do anything you are not comfortable with and don't ask anyone to do anything they are not comfortable with either. He may have found the person for him and decide not to continue in this relationship. Just know that if you take time and relax the right one will come along. I will keep you in my thoughts and trust that things will be well soon, even thought it is a wonderful thing to have a partner to share our lives with it is not the most important thing in live we could continie without it until God sees fit for it to materialize. Good bless. SWEETHEART.
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Posted by sweetheart
on 2007-12-13 18:10:23
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