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My turn on/off list!!!

So I was on my fave teen advice website getting advice on the latest drama in my life. Anyways, I saw this post and this guy made a list of turn-on/ turn-offs in girls. I thought it was VERY straghtforward and simple. I decided to make my own list. So here we go! (I'm adding to this over time )

Things that turn me off in a guy:

1. You are full of yourself. Guys who think of themselves at "ladies men" are not attractive. Nobody cares if you think you're all that. They have been told they are hot too many times.
2. Guys who only want you for your looks. I'd never want to date another guy who only wanted to make out. For real, get some respect.
3. Self-centered or unthoughtful guys. Can you PLEASE stop thinking of yourself for just ONE second and listen? Or remember my birthday? Our anniversary? I don't care what you get me, just CARE!!!
4. Guys who cheat, or think they can get by with cheating. Cheating in any way is uncool and is a DEFINITE turn-off. Again, have some respect!!!
5.BAD HYGIENE - biggest turn off. especially if you have bad teeth. i don't mind not bathing everyday, as long as you do not SMELL. ughhh.
6. Agreeing with everything I say - have your own opinions too WITHOUT being a jerk about it.
7. When guys say "whatever!" - I hate a worse attitude than mine. :P
8. Overly-sensitive - Eh... im sorry but I don't want it to seem like I'm dating a girl.
7. Huge muscles - it's nasty, bleh.
8. Guys who put people down. It's hurtful. Be nice.
9. Racism or judgemental. Everyone is but draw the line, buddy.
10. Lying. It's cruel, and hurtful. Don't lie.
11. Apologizing is necessary sometimes, but when guys keep saying "sorry, sorry sorry" OMG! I know you're being nice but HAVE MERCY!
12. Control freaks, don't call me and ask me what im doing or who im with all the time, it's nice to have interest but i don't wanna look at my phone and see 5 missed calls in a space of an hour thanks.

Things that turn me on in a guy:

1. I tend to go for the nerds because they tend to be the sweetest guys. But, if I could find a hottie with a great personality it would be a miracle.
2. Musical interest/ good musical taste. Tell me about a song that reminds me of you! Write me a song, or discuss the latest albums. Give us some foundation.
3. Nice abs. Haha, sorry. Can't help myself. But don't be stuck up about it.
4. Nice muscles. Again, cant help myself. But, don't be stuck up about it.
5. Beautiful eyes. I talk with eye contact. It's nice to have some great eyes to get lost in.
5. Guys who are at least muscular enough to give big hugs that I can melt in their arms.
6. Thoughtful guys. Anything special you do for me. It's sweet.
7. Cute hair. I tend to like long curly hair, or straight and flippy (sometimes) but cute hair is just ADORABLE.
8. An all-over good heart.
9. Being able to stand up for yourself. and being able to stand up for me
10. Having a genuine relationship. I can be myself and you can be yours.
11. The ability to listen-- REALLY listen.
12. Intelligence. I don't want to talk to a rock. I want colorful conversations. Someone who can debate with me.
13.Touching my face when we kiss - it just feels so warm and caring. I love feeling cared for.
14. Will do anything to make me laugh - sense of humor always gets me.
15. Willing to cuddle for hours - I love it when someone shows me they just want to hold me.
16. Animal lovers - I'll hate you otherwise.
18. Brunettes usually. But some dirty blonde, jet black is smexy ;)
19. Protective - huuuge turn on. I don't want a body guard but I want someone to call me THEIRS.
20. Nice shoulders and not much taller than me - I love feeling secure in nice arms :] and I'm already pretty tall so I don't want to look down nor up too high.
21. Sensitivity - if a guy can't express himself, he's not interesting to me. A guy that isn't afraid to break down in front of me.
22. Being hugged from behind.
23. Braces - I don't know what it is about guys with braces, but my god.
24. Humour, somebody who can make me laugh and who can laugh at them self
25. Playing with my hair.26. Compliments, what girl doesn't like being told she looks cute in that dress or she's beautiful ^_^

That's all for now. May sound cold or harsh, but idk it's just some Turn-ons and offs. It doesnt mean i wont like someone who isnt EXACTLY like that. :)