CODE RED: Desperate Need In Advice

hiddenshadows · 11-08-2009, 01:56 AM

[]CODE RED
And I need help STAT

So, I'm madly head over heals for one of my BEST guy friends and everyone has told me he likes me, well, cutting to the chase, i'm pretty confident in that something could happen between the two of us, just one of my BEST guy friends..
he's madly in love with me. But he's one of my best guy friends, the thing is, he knows I only thing of him as a best friend, but we have a history. last summer.. not to much happened but basically we had a thing. i think. it was weird but now, now he has so many feelings for me. and hes basically in his mind at least, IN LOVE, with me. Thing is we talk on the phone like twice a day lately and i feel horrible because I feel that i'm leading him on when I try SO hard..
not to.
but I don't even flirt because well, i know better than that with him. I haven't encouarged him at all. But I feel everytime I talk to him on the phone I lead him on. but we're best friends..

I NEED HELP!
ASAP.

[Please, i beg you computer users. please.
HELP.

movieguy28 · 11-08-2009, 03:05 AM

Ok

1. If you don't have feelings for him that way, you need to talk to him about it and tell him the truth. The only thing you can do in that instance.

2. If you DO recipricate those kinda feelings for him then I say go for it! But you gotta talk to him and tell him you feel the same.

3. If you don't know how you feel then you should still talk to him and tell him what you're thinkin and feelin.

EITHER WAY, whatever you decide, you NEED to talk to him. If you spend that much time talkin to the guy on the phone, try covering the ground of this predicament. You're just gonna have to communicate with him. Cuz that's what best friends do. Ultimately, the choice is up to you

Best of luck to you!

nel_alone · 11-08-2009, 09:29 AM

Just a thought ^_^
It's a feeling like it won't end...All I can say is Enjoy it while it last...^_^
Know yourself first and from that you can decide and what ever decision you do... Live it and love it. Don't ever regret it ^_^

You are the one who decides if you want to be happy or not...
Be you ^_^ Good luck

11-08-2009, 01:56 AM	#1
hiddenshadows Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 3	CODE RED: Desperate Need In Advice []CODE RED And I need help STAT So, I'm madly head over heals for one of my BEST guy friends and everyone has told me he likes me, well, cutting to the chase, i'm pretty confident in that something could happen between the two of us, just one of my BEST guy friends.. he's madly in love with me. But he's one of my best guy friends, the thing is, he knows I only thing of him as a best friend, but we have a history. last summer.. not to much happened but basically we had a thing. i think. it was weird but now, now he has so many feelings for me. and hes basically in his mind at least, IN LOVE, with me. Thing is we talk on the phone like twice a day lately and i feel horrible because I feel that i'm leading him on when I try SO hard.. not to. but I don't even flirt because well, i know better than that with him. I haven't encouarged him at all. But I feel everytime I talk to him on the phone I lead him on. but we're best friends.. I NEED HELP! ASAP. [Please, i beg you computer users. please. HELP.

11-08-2009, 03:05 AM	#2
movieguy28 Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 126	Ok 1. If you don't have feelings for him that way, you need to talk to him about it and tell him the truth. The only thing you can do in that instance. 2. If you DO recipricate those kinda feelings for him then I say go for it! But you gotta talk to him and tell him you feel the same. 3. If you don't know how you feel then you should still talk to him and tell him what you're thinkin and feelin. EITHER WAY, whatever you decide, you NEED to talk to him. If you spend that much time talkin to the guy on the phone, try covering the ground of this predicament. You're just gonna have to communicate with him. Cuz that's what best friends do. Ultimately, the choice is up to you Best of luck to you! __________________ I'm chill as a cucumber....

11-08-2009, 09:29 AM	#3
nel_alone Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1	Just a thought ^_^ It's a feeling like it won't end...All I can say is Enjoy it while it last...^_^ Know yourself first and from that you can decide and what ever decision you do... Live it and love it. Don't ever regret it ^_^ You are the one who decides if you want to be happy or not... Be you ^_^ Good luck __________________

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