View Full Version : How can I cope?
Aaron4959
11-21-2008, 09:18 PM
Argh. I'm in love right now, and it sucks.
I'm a guy, and I'm bisexual. My current love is my best friend, who happens to be a guy too. We're in love, and we've been dating about a week (I've just confessed my love for him, but we've liked each other for a long time). But he's moving to the US next summer, and I'll never see him again after that. I probably won't even get to call him, because of long-distance charges :(
My heart hurts every time I think about him leaving. I know it's going to happen, but I want to cry every time the thought of him moving away and never seeing him again bursts into my mind. How can I cope with this better? Give me your advice and hope, please. I need it.
StarDog
11-21-2008, 10:02 PM
Are you friggin kidding me? How F***ed up is this crap? Dude...I don't care if you're BI or whatever. Lets clear that up first. Next, Why you askin' a bunch of internet losers for advice? (yep...i'm one too). Do whatever the F you want and quit being all dramatic about everything. You're indecisiveness will hold you back. Pick one and live with it...wtf? Go with him or move on...what else is there...
Dimples87
11-21-2008, 10:36 PM
I think if you want to stay with him, go with him and if you can't try to get a cell phone to where you can call him and you both can talk all the time. Also, find out what he wants to do once he goes to the US, do you want to stay together, see other people, or what. You deserve to know where your relationship is headed.
Ng2008
11-22-2008, 12:19 AM
Argh. I'm in love right now, and it sucks.
I'm a guy, and I'm bisexual. My current love is my best friend, who happens to be a guy too. We're in love, and we've been dating about a week (I've just confessed my love for him, but we've liked each other for a long time). But he's moving to the US next summer, and I'll never see him again after that. I probably won't even get to call him, because of long-distance charges :(
My heart hurts every time I think about him leaving. I know it's going to happen, but I want to cry every time the thought of him moving away and never seeing him again bursts into my mind. How can I cope with this better? Give me your advice and hope, please. I need it.
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Aaron4959
11-22-2008, 10:42 AM
StarDog,
Quit being rude. First off, I'm not being dramatic. Second, Thoughts.com is a safe place to ask questions like this. And third, you have no right to tell me what to do.
Aaron what do you feel like doing? Why is he going? Does he feel the same?
Life does throw curve balls at us and we either move on or wait or keep in touch. It is up to you to decide what route you will take.... good luck and may happiness and love always touch you.