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Jesus Said: I Am The Bread of Life on 2008-02-20 14:14:20 |
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I envy your faith. I wish I had the ability to believe in something so completely. Maybe it would make things easier to cope with.
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Me and My Poopy Pants Dilemma on 2008-02-19 21:31:19 |
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Thank you. I have been having the most godaweful time lately and that is the first thing to bring a smile to my face all day.
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Day 3 on 2008-02-19 17:12:59 |
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Hi.
Good on u for trying to stop cutting. It can be really hard to find another way to deal with your pain. Just so you know, it is possible to stop and start finding other ways to cope. Things are still shit every now and then, but after a time, it is easier to resist the urge to cut.
I stopped self harming about a year ago and every time I think about it, I look at the scars I have and realise that it didn't actually achieve anything.
Good luck.
Email if you need to talk.
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Losing Streak on 2008-02-19 15:12:28 |
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I understand
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Done on 2008-02-19 14:35:42 |
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She obviously wasn't that much of a wonderful girlfriend/person if she is messing with ur head like that. Love sucks really bad, but it does get easier. I don't think it ever stops hurting 100%, but in time you remember more about the good things are realise how much you learnt out of a reationship.
Seriously, it sounds to me like this chick is messing with u.
My advice, for what it is worth, break the tie completely. She texts, don't text back. She calls, don't talk to her. Stay away as much as you can, you are just prolonging the agony and hurt if u keep trying to communicate with someone who is doing that to you.
Good luck.
Kia Kaha (be strong)
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I give up on 2008-02-18 15:00:02 |
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I actually really feel what you say. I'm in the same place. Right on breaking point...you aren't alone.
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How do you feel when you look in the mirror?? on 2008-02-17 15:29:52 |
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I do understand this. And to be completely honest I think that the majority of women especially are like that. The media gives us this depiction of what "beauty" is, and we expect ourselve to fall into that effortlessly. I hate what I see in the mirror, but people around me like me as I am, so I decided to listen to them instead of to myself - cos I'm more likely to love myself if I listen to how they love me!
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Please leave her alone... on 2008-02-11 18:25:49 |
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How is suffering from an uncontrolable mental illness abusing opportunity? What sort of bigot are you? Do u have any comprehension how hard it is to live with a mental illness? Do u know what a manic episode is? Do u have any idea what it is like to be unable to control ur life?
I am not a Britney fan, not in the slightest, but I really do feel for her right now, cos I KNOW how hard it is to deal with a mental illness, as do many others out there. and I know that if someone publicised every ordeal in my life to the world I would probably go off the rails too.
Can u imagine the hardest times of ur life being sprayed across headlines?
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depressive on 2008-02-07 17:54:44 |
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There is no reason for depression. I am a highly intelligent, creative, funny person and I have Bipolar Disorder. It's just the way it is. There has been research done into links between intelligence and depressive illnesses. Many of history's iconic figures have suffered from mental ilnesses, in particular mood disorders. Look it up online, it is actually very fascinating. Think of it as chemical if it helps. The brain produces chemicals that create good feelings. In depression, these chemicals are not being formed to put it VERY simply.
Try and talk your friend into talking to a professional. I know there is a stigma, I know that it is really hard to accept that there is a problem, but it is something that needs to be dealt with or it can take over your life...
Don't know how much help that is, but there ya go...
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I'm going CRAZY! on 2008-02-04 16:27:23 |
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Something I do to help calm myself when I am having an anxiety attack is count. I just keep counting in my head to help slow down and block out the negative thougths pouring in.
I can't say i know exactly how u feel, we all feel differently, even though a problem might have the same title, but i do understand how hard it can be to operate when u feel like you are being squeezed in a vice and going out of your mind.
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Suicidal...? on 2008-02-03 14:40:01 |
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Alas I can understand the mindset of a person that commits suicide. Sometimes a person can become so dellusional that they think they are doing what is best for their friends and family by ending it all...now I KNOW that this is not the case, but I really can understand the midset. I have been there, but fortunately, I have had the ability to fight it. It is selfish, sometimes, but we never know exactly what is going through someones head at these moments. Mostly it is a tragedy that there are so many gaps in the mental health system that let people fal through. I can tell you that here in NZ people pretty much have to be standing there with a rope around their neck or on a complete psychotic rampage to get any sort of attention from the so called public mental health system in less than 2 months, and sometimes that is too late...
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uhhhh... on 2008-02-03 04:33:30 |
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Assertive and confidence in people our age is usually an illusion. but I do know where u are. and it does suck. but there are ways through it. and the good times make it worth it, it makes you feel how wonderful life can be...
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