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And so the saga continues, that asshole I used to be married to has just told me a blatant lie about being out of town- just to avoid picking up the baby this weekend. I cannot believe the depths that some people will go to just to avoid responsibility! And why lie? Why not tell me the truth "I need to spend some time with my flloosy girlfriend and she doesn't like the baby being at my house". I cannot believe this! I love my son but I regret having had a child with someone that ALWAYS succeeds in upsetting me.
Sometimes I wish he would just disappear from this earth and NEVER find his way back, he makes my life incredibly unpleasant and I feel so stupid because I know I shouldn't be giving a damn about all this.I am so tired of all this. Everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie! I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want my son to grow up without a father so I encourage him to spend time with his son, but when I do he pulls tricks like this. Its so hard for me to strike a balance between protecting my son's interests and keeping myself sane by avoiding his father. I don't want to be selfish but how can I move on with my life when I constantly communicate with the person who doesn't care for my feelings and lies to me all the time? I feel like a fool caught between a rock and a very hard place. My love for my son dictates that I give him time with his father but I want to break free from that relationship and it is hard because I have to communicate with my ex, for my son's sake. I am stuck with the blessing and the curse - my son being the blessing which comes with the curse, his dad. I regret ever having got involved with that man. Oh God, please give me peace.
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Posted by ffeeona on 2008-04-23 02:14:45 | Rating: | Views: 52
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By the sounds of it he's kind of a dad beat dad, maybe not the owrst of his kind but still a ass. If he loves his son but makes excuses then punish him by not letting him take you son a certain weekend, make it fit your schedule, if this works out in a way to where he kind of drops you both from his life, well then your son may have to grow up without his biological dad, but his dad may be any male figure in his life that has significant influence on it and is either your new hubby or is someone near and dear to you that you may end up marrying, he may have to grow up without that guy that used to be married to his mom and got her pregnant, but he doesn't have to grow up without a dad and if for some reason he does, it isn't the end of the world, I mean it'll suck at times, but it can still work out really well for both of you if he grows up without a dad. You never know
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Posted by HappilyMarriedMan
on 2008-04-25 16:31:34
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thanks for your comments. He did eventually come to pick him up (yesterday in actual fact) and I guess thats that for now. Its just typical of him though, he's really very difficult to understand. I'll just have to see how it goes.
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Posted by ffeeona
on 2008-04-28 02:23:15
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I raised my daughter without her father, (my choide) and it was the best thing I ever did!
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Posted by Theresia_Harvard
on 2008-04-28 07:24:14
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