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I've often had guys ask me why women like bad boys, why they love players and my answer has always been that we don't like them because they are players, they are players because they have something that women want; wit, charm, mystery, excitement. The 'nice guys' however usually lack excitement. They are mostly predictable and needy. But thats not to say we don't like that they're nice, we just wish they were exciting as well, we wish that they weren't so darn predictable.
I dated a 'nice' guy once. The highlight of his day was spending time with me and watching a good movie. While this is not a bad thing it gets very boring after some time. My mind began to wander after some time and I longed for a stranger to come and sweep me off my feet, say something naughty and leave me longing. Excitement. That what we want, some excitement, not every day but now and again.
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Posted by ffeeona on 2008-05-21 03:33:19 | Rating: | Views: 83
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Right there with you. Nice guys do seem a bit boring. You can set your watch by them. The weirdest thing about me is that when it comes to guys instead of them being the predator, I am. It's always been that way.
When I was younger I had a relationship that lasted about 3 years and since then I haven't had one that's lasted longer than a month and most of the time not that long. I don't try to figure out what's wrong with my, I just go wherever it takes me.
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Posted by Faith
on 2008-05-21 13:06:25
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i know about being the predator but I've come to a point where I'm going to allow myself to be chased despite my predator instincts.I've found that relationships are always better (easier maybe) when the guy is the one who sought you out because he's more committed that way.
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Posted by ffeeona
on 2008-05-22 03:17:40
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That is so true but I like nice and exciting guys mixed together or a guy that is so much like me but if a guy was so much like me, he would be boring as well.
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Posted by Plakola
on 2008-05-22 12:13:33
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I never had a relationship so... I don't know. Maybe I am bitter. But me I don't like the thuggish guys and I don't like jerky guys
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Posted by Plakola
on 2008-05-22 12:16:06
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