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This is just a quick one, I hope I get some comments though. PLEASE!!!
What makes you feel desirable/sexy?
If you're single:
Is it being wolf-whistled at on the street?
Turning heads in a bar?
Going out to 'hit the town' and coming home with 15 phone numbers?
Getting appreciative glances at the beach?
In a couple:
Sexy text message from other half during a work day
Lots of cuddles & kisses when you are feeling your worst
Some kind of compliment on your appearance
Being chased for sex-even if you don't want it, it makes you feel good that the other partner does
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I would love to know people, if you are OK with sharing!!!
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Posted by faithalexsmum on 2008-01-13 06:31:00 | Rating: | Views: 219
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My fella is an absolute EXPERT at making me feel desirable. The gift he has is that he can evoke that feeling whether I am on a high or a low. When I am happy, or all excited he's right up there with me, sharing it with me, and when I am feeling low he knows just what to say.
He lives 260 miles away, so when we are not together it's the things he says that make me feel desirable. Example - the other week I was going on a night out and he sent me a text saying I looked stunning, even though he didn't even know, let alone had he seen, what I was wearing. I went out beaming from ear to ear.
When we are together it's the things he says AND does. Something as simple as a big cuddle makes me feel desirable.
He's one of those rare guys who is not only not embarrassed to shop in the women's section with me, but gets actively involved. He'll look at some sexy undies and say...'God you'd look goreous in that' and because of my insecurities I'll roll my eyes and laugh and he'll look at me and say 'Oi, I mean it'...and I know he does. He constantly tells me how sexy he finds me and how beautiful I am. In my mind, I'm not. I'm not ugly, but I'm not particularly pretty either. But hearing him say I am to him, and better yet, being able to believe I am, is what makes me feel sexy.
I think for alot of women to feel desirable, they need to be told they are to their partner, he needs to say it, but then he needs to back that up with actions, and that doesn't mean just sex. Being chased for sex has never made me feel desirable, because to me it is just a physical need for most of the men I've known, therefore it doesn't make me feel special. However...knowing someone wants to make love to you...that's different, because there's emotion involved too. So to stop myself rambling, what makes me feel desirable is being told by my fella I am beautiful, or that he loves/needs me, the way I sometimes catch him looking at me, his wonderful way with words and the extraordinary ability he has to know exactly when I need a cuddle or a kiss, these are the things that mean the most. Hope that made sense!! xxx
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Posted by chebtastic1
on 2008-01-13 07:31:44
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Sorry, I got carried away!! hehe xxx
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Posted by chebtastic1
on 2008-01-13 07:32:42
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Shaved legs, make up and a halter dress.
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Posted by CynicalSweetheart
on 2008-01-13 08:51:01
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lets see, its been forever since my husband has made me feel this way so i am trying to pull up past thoughts. defiently the looks he used to give or the quirky smile when he walked in as i was dressing or undressing, when we took a shower or a bath together how his fingers would linger just a little to long or a soft caress on my shoulders etc with the bubbles, something intimate, the touch the look, knowing by his expression that i was beautiful in his eyes. the words spoken are great but not near as great as the look in his face the one where you know at that moment you are the sexiest most beautiful woman on the planet!
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Posted by someone74
on 2008-01-13 15:54:51
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