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wHy make a U-tUrn??

             how can we say that a relationship is through?? how can we say that what we've got is enough? when would be the best time to say its over and moved on?? when can we say that there's nothing else to feel??

             we often misunderstood the true and real concept of moving on,. we mistakenly saw moving on as forgetting, finding new, freedom from the past. but, what we actually moving on really stands for still remained unspoken.

             people who have grown tired of getting hurt decide to move on. to forget what was happened, to live a new life with great hopes and happiness. we move on to stop the hurt and sleepless nights. we move on pretending that things just dont happen as it was. we often decide to do this for us to suffer no more for all the sorrows and agony of life we were in.

             but, the true meaning of moving on is distractively opposite to what we believe all this time!!! whether you believe it or not, moving on is just a preparation! preparation for something you can't even believe it may be! moving on is preparing youself to get hurt again and again!! you may not agree with me but think about this: nobody says that moving on is easy! you have to forget everything that just happen. but, how can you forget the things that made you live and happy? how would you free yourself from the feeling that makes you breath? how would you suppose to forget the person that thought you what you've known right now. i know that whoever may read about this will contradict me! because even I, myself can't believe this thing!! it's unacceptable!! but, if we are going to see the steps we have to get through, we'll see that we are killing ourselves in moving on!! we forced ourselves to stop loving!! we are too cruel to our hearts that we stop it from beating!! we are hurting our own selves in trying to free ourselves from this horrid things!!

              i am not trying to say that we should not move on, but what i am trying to tell you is that if love is true, pain and hurts was never an excuse to move on!!!!  we gave up that easy that's why we never see what it feels like to be happy!!! remember that the right time to move on is when there's nothing more left to fight for! it's time to move on when you can prove to yourself that once you did this there is no regret, no turning back!!