why do perfect love ends? i know that there i no such thing as perfect in this world, what i mean is that why does a love made in heaven suffer hell in the midst of cloud-nine?? why it is possible that when we think that this must be it, why does it suddeny crashes?? how would a long-term relationship seem to be not what it used to be??

they say that once you find your true love it is the happiest moment of all. only few got the chance to have this kind of opportunity. more often than not, we make mistakes assuming that, that "sOmeOne" we are with now is our very own true love. because of our blind fantasies, we are hiding the truth that he's nOt HE!! because we are so inlove we often forget that there is still that "SOMEONE" whO  is really our very own soulmate.

sometimes, love was really not enough. although it is the major fact we need in a relationship still it is not all we must have to have a smooth, long lasting relationship. trust is more important. i was talking with my friend awhile ago about her problem. sHe seeks for attention from his boyfriend which she doesn't get at this point, plus she finds it hard to trust her 3 years boyfriend because she founds a sign of infidelity in him. on the other hand, she has this "friend with benefit" who gave  her what she needs. all the attention, and she really feels love. what bothers me and i know bothers her tOo, is hOw would she deal with this. she loves his boyfriend, but she's falling with the other guy in the picture. a question just poped up my mind: is it really bad to find happiness and contentment with the other guy when you are still committed? but what if the one you're with doesn't satisfy her needs? who must stay? the one you've been with for a long tym that doesn't give what you need, or the one who's giving you all the things you need but yourefuses to love back because of the committment you're in to?

if we are going to see the picture, it is really not good in sight to have "something" with someone when your are with somebody, it is INFIDELITY. but, we are going to know and discover the true reason behind that, we can see that sometimes, dissatisfaction caused it and we will see that there is really nothing wrong with that. we may find it hard to see it, but if we are going to put ourselves on their shoes and be in the same situation, we can also say that there is nothing wrong. every just want to be happy. and hOw do we find happiness if we're not satisfied, right? on the other hand, it is nOt right to find satisfaction tO anyOne else besides the On you're with nOw. wHy we see discOntentment? its because we are nOt contented.  not cOntented tO what we receive from the one we lOve. why we find cOntentment to the other ones? its because we FORCED to see it tO them. we never realize that we are just hUrtin' them when we are trying tO see what has been missin'..