Thoughts.com Blogs - pulling back the Lost oNe

people say that the value of one person is seen when he/she is lost in our grip. we intend to see their purpose in our lives once they are already gone. the time they left us, is the same time we realize their role and worth.

people always took for granted the ones who care for us alot. who stays beside us through thick and thin. who stands for us. who sacrifice almost everything just to make us happy. we never see it when they are with us. we never intend to care knowing that they'll stay forever no matter what. but, we are all people. and people also get tired of being taken for granted. those who were often left and unnoticed by the people they love grew tired and numb of all the pain. and they decide to leave.... forever.....

the worst and saddest thing is, it is not easy to have them back. its not easy to pull people near you when you pushed them away. because tired people realized that they can be happy even without you. that they can find the right one for them, that you've just wasted their time. hatred grews in their hearts and the sense of forgiveness is not at the scenerio this time. its hard to ask for it when all they can think of is all the things you did that hurt them, and it is not easy to bare.

that's why we end up doing what they used to do with us and they did the same as we are before. we began to feel all the hurts we put them. all the things they sacrifice for us, beginning to be our sacrifice now. we felt the same feeling they felt before. we now realize how wrong are we to be that way for them. but, its too late now. they hate us already.

only few gets the oppurtunity to pull what they pushed. only few gets another chance. lucky are those who regain the love and have it the next time. but, most of us don't get the sme luck as they do. most of us, ends with just one lesson left to be learn. and that is to value every person that values us and give us our worth..