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I have made mistakes in my life, just like everyone else. I´ve also paid for my mistakes. But i still don´t get why my life is so hard to live. I feel like im in a video game and i can´t defeat the most important level. There are people that get things handed over to them, but of course they take it for granted and screw everything up. But i have seen those few that worked hard and got what they deserve and were actually grateful for it, too.
i know people that complain and groan, and they say shit like.."i hate my parents" or "i wish i didn´t have any parents". But mainly they are just too blindsighted to see that they have everything. There is no perfect parent, of course. But i know that there are those sick fucks that abuse their kids and they still have the nerve to call themselves good parents.
But those actual good parents, they may not let you stay out til midnight or even ten, or they may not even let you spend the night at a friends house, but it doesnt make them bad or anything like that. And they may also yell at you for not cleaning your room or doing your chores, but you must understand that they only act that way to teach you good morals and to look out for you. Your parents will love you no matter what you do. The love of a mother and father is unconditional. They may say they´ll disown you or some shit if you become a queerleader instead of a quarterback, or if you become an artist instead of a doctor, or my favorite.... if you end up being GAY!
At the end of the day they will still love you even though you´re the total opposite of what your parents had planned for you.
I wasnt fortunate enough to have parents that actually stayed together, or that were even close to see my grow up. My mother lives in Spain with my grandmother, and my father lives in Texas with my brother who i havent seen since i was 14, which is when i met my father.
But i was totally lucky enough to have an aunt and uncle who took me in and raised me as if i were their daughter. I may not have riches or other stuff that would be nice to have, but to me, the love of my family, food in mouth and a roof over my head is all i need in life to be happy.
You may see things way more differently than me, but everyone should try to see things from a different perspective or put yourself in someone else´s shoes.
WHO KNOWS.... IT MAY ACTUALLY CHANG YOUR WAY OF THINHKING!
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Posted by estrella6829 on 2008-08-09 01:51:06 | Rating: | Views: 55
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Life is just like that. I do believed in fate. You were giving birth by your parents, but it doesnt means you will have to stay with them. You are also lucky in the way that you parents didnt dump you in a dust bin like some of them. some will even kill their kids when he/she just born. so think of the bright side that you are lucky enough to have someone care and love you even they are not your real parents. some of these people are even much better than your own parents. So do thanks to your parents who brought you to this world and to your uncle and autie. the rest of your life is actually depend on you yourself on how do you want your life to be..take care and god bless you
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Posted by GnR
on 2008-08-09 02:41:02
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i am one of the unfortunate ones. i have been abused since i was born. sometimes you just got to let people make mistakes and forgive them and move on with your life. parents try to do what they think is best for their child and it is not right for us to make it harder. sometimes just suck it up, be grateful for what you have and don't take things for granted because you never know what you had until you lost it.
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Posted by dancer101
on 2008-08-09 10:01:07
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well you my friend are lucky yes but the fact that you appreciate what you have makes you probably one of the smartest people out there. Most dont take the time to appreciate anything. What i have learned from living in my DYSFUNCTIONAL family is that no matter what it can always be worse. My life has been messed up and my parents have had to deal with so much. they were abusive yes, but i know there were things we could have done as kids to make it easier. My brothers are those ungrateful people you speak of. :) It is frustrating because it is hard to see them be so ungrateful and pathetic actually.
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Posted by Dancer78
on 2008-08-09 11:41:44
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wow that si realy cool that you are from japan I did not no they had computer at that internet!!!!!No offence ment!!!! I hope we can be freinds!!!I am new at blogging to so you are not the only one!!!
~samantha~
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Posted by sammypie227
on 2008-08-09 17:29:05
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