So i will start from the begining... probably like a couple months ago... i meet this guy.. we will say his name is Ryan... well i meet ryan at the pool of my apartments and i thought he was amazing... i thought he was cute funny and just a chill ass dude.. well that night a bunch of us wemt back to his apartment and chill and drank and whatever..we just chatted it up(everyone) laughing and just being stupid... i was gettin along with everyone.. cause they were all basically new people to me... i got really shit faced really fast ( surprised me) and i started to pass out on the couch... Ryan told me to go and lay in his bed... I THINK we messed around.. the next thing i know i woke up in HIS CLOTHES on the couch again... he was waking me up askin me why i came out there... i had no clue... to this day i dont remember anything after goin in his room... well i got up and decided i need to take my ass home... i got his number and left... i passed out at home til like the afternoon.. i texted him and told him it was me and that i just wanted him to have my number... for days and days after i would go over to their apart after i got off work (11:30 pm) and chill drink and do whatever... i started to spend the night more often.. after about 2 weeks chillin all the time ryan had to go to a family reunion and he would texted me all the time all day while he was there i thought it was cute... (atleast then i did) after he got back we chilled alot (now i see was way too much) he moved into a new apartment and i stayed non-stop... i started to realize what kind of guy he was.... Clingy... all he did was smoke.. did nothin with his life... well he was in school but never fuckin went... he would lie to me.. not bout anything big but about dumb shit like goin to school... he would tell his roommate and friends to tell me he went to class so he would get ass... well there was one night when i was pretty fucking drunk (again) and messed around with his roommate i felt so bad and his roommate told me he didnt cause ryan was a loser and that i shouldnt be with him.. after he told me this i started to think alot and look at all the signs of things that were going on.. i felt like i was the man and he was the woman of the relationship.. i dont mind havin some charge but a woman wants to feel like a woman some times DAMN... so i finally broke up with him but he was soooo sprung he wouldnt let it go... he still would text me non stop and want to chill and fuck around... i told him i could keep doin that.. so i kept myself away from him and that really pissed him off i never went over there we never chilled or anything... so finally days late my birthday comes around and i decided to have a party at my house and i told him he was allowed to come aslong as he knew we were just friends.. he said ok... i had soooo much fun at my party but at the end of the night he decided to ask my twin brother if it was ok that he crashed at our house... my brother said yes and this totally pissed me off cause he should have asked me not him... so the night is comin to an end and we start to make out and fool around i told him to stop that we shouldnt be doin this cause i only want to be friends i walked out of my apartment and went downstairs he followed me and we started arguing i told him i wanted him to leave he said he would go get his shoes and leave... when he started to walk away and he realized i didnt follow him he turned around he got infront of me and keep trying to talk to me i was like LEAVE ME ALONE... finally he wouldnt let me passed and he started grabbing me... i dont play those games even more so when im drunk... so i hit him in his face a few times... i started to run away from him and he just screamed the craziest things at me about how i am fucking up his life and i was the greatest thing he had... if i could remember more of that night i would probably even more pissed... well he would still love to be friends or date but i could go for neither.. he still text me like crazy i told him to give up.. he said he wont... im the best thing for him... I DONT CARE.... this drama goes on and on... im sure there will be more to this story but right now im soooo happy single drinkin and chillin with whoever i please... thats me... work and party... i dont need to be tied anywhere or to anyone!!!