Q: I read The Secret a year ago and immediately began implementing its teachings into my daily life and instantly my life began to change practically before my eyes :-)! But I am struggling with one dilemma: To make a long story short I have been wanting to manifest something in my life for about a year...it's an ex that I would love to have back in my life.....Anyway I visualize, I keep my thoughts on a positive frequency, I daydream, I have a vision board with a picture of us as a couple on it, I write in my gratitude journal, I meditate, I have cleared out my life(including people I was seeing and my closet) so of course my question is, WHY HAS MY DESIRE NOT MANIFESTED??!! It is so close I can practically taste it, I come out of my visualizations almost in shock that it was just a visualization the feelings I experience are just that intense. But I am still ALONE, what am I doing wrong??!! My ex has told me that I am "the one", the love we shared is still there, I am thought of on a daily basis by my ex. So, I am asking what is the hold up then...I am not questioning the "how" I have left that up to the universe. But why has my desire not manifested yet? Does it mean that something’s we may want are not meant for us? I am getting impatient and discouraged I am trying to keep my thoughts positive but it is getting harder everyday....PLEASE PLEASE OFFER ANY ADVICE.
Thank You in advance
A: Here is my two cents worth on the subject: You have done everything right and this is why you feel so close to the manifestation of your desire. The only thing is that you keep on going backwards the way it sounds. You are driving half way to your destination and then asking, “Are we there yet?” What is tripping you up in having this desire to manifest is your impatience.
When you ask for anything from Universe, it is done, it is given. Your ex already exists as a part of your vibrational reality, now it is your turn to align with that vibration and allow it to happen. When you ask the Universe for something, anything; the Universe tries to bring together all the cooperative components to have your desire delivered. The concern at this point is that you also have to be cooperative for this delivery to happen. You are the largest component in creation of this physical reality. A large part of manifesting anything is to be detached from the desire. You do not seem to have done that.
When you ask for something, the Universe is going to take the shortest possible way to bring it to you. However, you as the manifester need to be aware of this. The reason is that the shortest possible way is not always the best way. I had a client years back that took 2 months to manifest a partner into her life and 10 years to get rid of him. Had another client that wanted to manifest money and he did but it was inheritance from his father. Needless to say this left him sad for years to come with many hours of counselling. It is actually good that your desire is taking time to come to physical reality.
Here is how this is done in a step-by-step manner:
1. Ask for what you want: this can happen in the form of you writing down what you desire or just verbalizing it, or just thinking about it. The interesting part is that your realization of the physical reality of you being “alone” automatically creates a desire and places the opposite to that in your vibrational reality. So in your vibrational reality you are immediately not alone. Now you need to align to that frequency and have it manifest in physical reality.
2. Focus on your desire (think, visualize the outcome). It is said that focusing on any desire for even 68 seconds a day is more powerful than 20,000 hours of working towards something.
3. Relax and let all the components that need to come together for the manifestation of this desire to do so. Asking, “so where is it?” is not relaxing into it. If you truly understand that the minute you ask for something, it is given and you have absolute faith in that, you will not ask “so where is it?” Imagine you are driving from point A to point B. You know the road and you know that you are on the right path. You do not constantly question, “so am I there yet?” you keep going because you KNOW and you have faith that you will be there soon. As a matter of fact if someone next to you kept on asking the question you might even get quite frustrated. Your question of “where is it?” not only does not help in the process of manifesting but also takes you few steps back. KNOW deep inside that what you wish is yours and relax into the thought. Allow all the components to come together and for this to become a physical reality. Anytime you are distracted, take your focus back to the truth: YOU ALREADY HAVE IT.
4. Be ready and willing to accept
Now having said all this, I also would need to add another point to this. All I have said is based on the fact that you have mentioned that your ex has also expressed their love towards you and the willingness. In the case that he/she would not have done so the story would be completely different.
Each and every one of us has come here with an inborn right called “free will and choice”. One person cannot violate that for someone else. If your ex was not of the same mind, you could not have used this as an example of using the Law Of Attraction in manifesting his/her physical existence in your life. The Universe is fair in its laws and this is Law Of Attraction and not Law Of Assertion. I hope I have been able to answer your question.
In Love and Light,
El
www.elmarch.com
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