Q: I like to know if I can manifest a lover/partner through the Law Of Attraction. I feel as if there is no one out there for me and I will be spending the rest of my life alone. I don’t feel attracted to the ones that say are attracted to me. Have not had a good relationship in what seems to be ages.
A: You can use the Law of Attraction in a specific way when you want anything in your life; your ideal partner is not any different.
In getting what you desire, one important factor is to truly have faith in the “truth”. The truth is Love. There is no fear in truth. Love contains joy, happiness, health, wealth, etc. The truth is that the minute you ask for it, it is given. All you need to do is to align with this energetic existence to being it into physical reality. So what you need to do, in a nutshell, is start living like you already have your ideal partner in your life. When you can create and maintain this reality energetically, you will be manifesting the partner you want physically.
One really powerful thing to do it to write down the qualities of the partner you are looking for to the last detail. What he/she is like physically, emotionally and spiritually and how he/she treats you and the life you will be living with him/her and how it feels. Try to leave nothing out. Read this writing few times a week and concentrate on it. Also adjust your thoughts and emotions away from waiting and hoping for the arrival of your dream lover to actually being the person your future mate would want to be with. You need to think, feel and act like someone who already has their dream partner in their life.
You can block the ideal partner from coming to you if you focus on being lonely and isolated. Can you listen to love songs without feeling sad or sorry for yourself? How does the sight of other happy couple make you feel? If you are happy for them and feel joy, your partner will arrive quicker; if you feel envious and if you ask why not me? You will be waiting a long time.
What the emotion of envy or sadness and sorrow will do is making sure that you live in the emotion of the LACK of an ideal partner you want. Feeling isolated, lonely, sad and sorry quickly builds barricades and emotional blockages that will prevent the Law of Attraction from sending you any abundance of any type including life partner. You have to turn those emotions around and send out positive, happy vibrations to the Law of Attraction if you want to attract a mate.
Here are few exercises for you:
- Start thinking and feeling like your ideal partner is already in your life.
- Promote a feeling of being loved and cherished in your life.
- Turn the envy to joy. When you see happy couples together imagine how you would feel if you were in the arms of a loving partner and focus on the feeling.
- Abstain from meaningless act of sex and if you have the opportunity, make love to someone you care for even if he/she is not your future partner.
- Use the power of gratitude.
- Affirm that your perfect mate will come into your life at the right moment, along with the belief that he/she is already here, will send a powerful beacon to the Law of Attraction that will get results. KNOW it is true. Feel grateful that you have that knowledge.
- Visualize the activities you would both enjoy.
- Go further and start LIVING the activities you've been visualizing. If taking pictures in the park are one of your visualizations, go there often and start taking pictures. Do the things that you would do with your ideal partner. If following through on these activities alone isn't comfortable for you, take a friend out that enjoys the same activity or even a family member.
Attracting anything in your life, whether it's more money, a better job or your dream lover, is accomplished the same way. Get a very specific picture of what you want to enter your life. Make room in your life. Focus your beliefs and feelings on what you want and make it real, the Law of Attraction will send you more than you expected. That's how it works.
In Love and Light,
El
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