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I am single and definitely don't have a problem with. I seem to have a problem with a guy who is around me all the time. I don't like to be cuddled and I only want to be bothered when I feel like it...and that isn't often.
I was "debating" with this woman yesterday about whether I am actually happy single and ok with it. She kept telling me I want to be in a relationship and married. I kept telling her NICELY that I am fine with being single for now. Maybe I won't feel this way 3 years or even 3 days from now, but at this point, I'M FINE! I told her I don't drive home wishing someone was there to greet me and when I did have a boyfriend, I was almost always annoyed because he wanted me to come to his house or be at mine.
I honestly don't know why I am like this...You know, the whole liking to be alone thing. Some of my friends are married and in great relationships and I love to see them that happy. Sometimes I envy it, but I always say, IF I am going to be in a relationship, I want it to be like that, not just having a boyfriend for the sake of having one and not being happy.
Considering I always end up having this discussion about me wanting to be single with the same people, I wonder why people who are all for relationships think that EVERYONE has to be for them. I'm not against them and I admit that if I find the one, that's great, but I'm not going to run around depressed because I don't have a man. That's ONE thing I am not going to be depressed about at this time.
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Posted by drkangel on 2009-09-11 00:34:49 | Rating: | Views: 37
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