complicated question?

As you learn to give yourself to another and have your relationship deepen, it helps you break through any discriminating attitudes toward relationships, and to have more confidence in your process. As you continue to accept yourself and enjoy life, you no longer feel the pressure to perform. The peaceful knowing inherent in your love relationship brings deeper meaning to being together, and the relationship brings you abounding joy.

i dont have a man but i want one. so i dont care but my best friend stands for himself.

I am usally standing up for myself and for him. I am very independent.

He stands up for himself, but I also stand up for him when I feel him being threatened in any way. I love him and of course I'll do whatever to protect him. He does the same for me.