I think you and your mom should just kick his ass to the curb. Beat him down and tell him never to come back. Put some fear into him and I assure you he will never return.

me again. I won't be such a talker this time.

anyone that says you need to forgive him is a fucking idiot. anyone that cheats deserves a foot in the nuts and a fist in the face. if you don't feel safe around him, then you might think about telling some other relatives that you really trust before tellling your mom. they could give you better advice than i ever could. if he's just a sleezy ass-hole that's more of a loser than a threat, tell your mom as soon as possible. don't sound like a tattle or any of that. be strong, tell her exactly what you saw and what you know, make sure that she takes you seriously.

Not being an overly religious persion, I have not problem telling you that any guy that would cheat on someone will never be forgiven by me. no matter what the circumstances. and I KNOW that there's a special place in hell for them no matter how many times they apologize. no guy that cheats is a man, he's a piece of shit that deserves nothing less than to get thrown out with the rest of the trash.

I'm praying for you, even though I'm not too happy with god at the moment. If he doesn't help you, I'll be having another serious talk with him.

Sincerley,
That guys who made the really long post on your last blog