I went out last night ta dinner with a nice guy I work with. We date maybe once a month, not much.  Any way, he's smart, a gentleman, a hard worker, a good listener and he makes me laugh.  He's white.  So.....do I need ta change the order of da words I just used ta describe him?? Start with.....he's white, he's smart, etc?  My neighbor that lives two doors down from me saw him pick me up last night and this morning I met her in the parking lot and we talked for a minute about Michael Jackson and out of the blue she asked did I date mostly white guys?  Huh?  She saw him last night and was curious if I preferred white men. I told her I enjoy men first and color last. She smiled and left for work. She's black. Point is most of the black men I know in my life jump at the chance ta date white or petite Hispanic girls. That's just the way it is and has always been.  My Dad left my Mom for a white woman and later that one for another white woman.  Not all Black men are that way but you can bet a large percentage do. What makes this so off sided is that very few Black women date white guys.  My choice, if I ever needed ta make one, would be ta go with a nice good looking Black man. I love the strength and classic good looks of the Black male. Black women are letting themselves get hung up over this and feeling a little inferior. My God that's bullshit!  Black males are the ones with the problem in that they need ta have a "white trophy bitch" hanging all horny and shit on their manly arm. These "WTB"s are all sad cases themselves in that they crave attention as much as da males they're hanging on. All sad.  The idea that white chicks crave Black males for their massive dicks is crazy!  I've been with dark lovers that barely made a tickle with their tool and I've been with the white ones that made me feel like I was having out of body experiences!  Same-mo....same-mo.  Men are very special ta me in my life both in and out of da hay wagon.  I'm gonna say it for real that the times I hear issues about race is always from my own black people first.  When a Black man can't find a job it's cause of "the man" so why can't the white man find a job either?  "Only blond white bitches get all the dance jobs.".....they only hire cute girls with hot bodies both Black and White so if ya gonna sit on yo black ass at Mickey D's and eat double cheese burgers and super size fries ya'll not gonna be a friggin dancer Black or White!!  So tired of all da crap. Keeping real ta myself is all that manners ta me.  My white friends have ta stay on guard how dey talk and act round blacks, my Hispanic friends are always ready ta get in their faces and too many Blacks don't care what they say or act around any body. Same-mo, same-mo.  Hundred years from now and most all will be mix race but ya can bet ya ass the short ones will be fighting the tall ones...............Dina