Thoughts.com Blogs - Why *Thom* Why?

Hi. I am new to this so please excuse my awkward and strange sentences and or thoughts. I have this friend I will call Thom. I have liked him on and off since last Halloween. That is more than a year ago. Whenever I stop liking him I always promise myself that this WILL be the last time. And sooner or later, be that months, days, or even hours, Thom comes back to my mind. I know that he doesn't like me. He has told me who he has a crush on and who he is dating (two different people mind you; great guy right?) and neither is me. I don't think he is that good for me. He has no work ethic at all; has crappy friends; and can be plain old mean. These traits are evident the moment you meet him. I DONT KNOW WHY I LIKE HIM SO! When I see him I don't like him, but when left to my own devices I strat to think about him and start to like him A LOT. Is this wrong? I don't know... should I tell him my feelings, which I am not sure of? Or am I better off keeping my ideas/feelings to myself and letting thhins run their course. The latter is probably better but still...Please help

Love,

Danggirl_eight