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Okay so it's been a little while since I made a post. I've been home for about three weeks now. Things have been up and down. Some days it seems like things are going good, other days its not.
So yesterday, my wife and I had a nice long talk about things. I felt like we had made a break-through. We talked about how it wasn't all me causing our problems and how we both have issues that we need to fix. We talked about starting over and how if we end up back together, we need to do things right. My wife told me that she is scared that she will give in, and then I won't want her anymore.
So we had a nice long talk and decided we would go to the movies tonight. Well, last night she ended up coming home high. I straight up asked her if she was, and she said no. I'm not an idiot. I did shit before I joined the military and I can tell when somebody is high. She told me that she was just tired. There is a difference between being tired and being high. Tired, you look exhausted. High, you look pretty relaxed all over. She looked like the latter.
So then today she comes home from work and immediately goes to sleep. I waited for her to wake up until around 8 p.m. and then said screw it. I called up a friend of mine (a girl) and decided to go out with her. I had fun for once! I really don't care if my wife gets mad about it either. She has been seeing some other guy, so why can't I see a girl?
I'm really just trying to kill time until my wife makes up her mind though. I know this girl isn't going to be anything to me. It's just someone fun to hang out with and be affectionate with. If my wife tells me she wants to be with me, I'll drop this girl in a second.
Maybe I'm stupid for still wanting my wife. My father in law yelled at me and told me to stop being an idiot and letting her walk all over me. He told me to straight up dump her ass and walk away. Then proceeded to tell me that him and my mother in law are thinking about kicking my wife out of their house. (We are currently living at our in-law's house due to me having to deploy so much this year.) I don't think they'll kick her out, but if my wife keeps going out, neglecting our daughter, and doing drugs, I think they just might.
P.S. Sorry if this thing seems all back and forth and out of order. It's really late and I'm extremely tired. Sorry =-\
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Posted by crash413 on 2007-12-23 05:23:41 | Rating: | Views: 137
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hey guy I understand. I went through a period of a nasty and very disagreeing ex wife. I divorced her and was happy China and have not seen that bitch since 1990 and care less.
Oh merry christmas.
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Posted by norm4u2
on 2007-12-23 05:56:39
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When the next times you guys have a talk - tell her how much she is being a terrible mom - she might have had it tough without you and raising your daughter but thats what you understand when you marry someone in the military she needs to realize how irresponsible shes being and outta feel awful about the way shes been acting! it sucks for you - but is damn awful for your daughter!
i'm sorry you have to go through such shit, crash -
hope you have a good christmas.
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Posted by Acre
on 2007-12-23 20:31:46
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I applaud you for trying to work things out. At least if it ends you will know you did your part. Sounds like some counseling is in order to help you guys work through all the crap.
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Posted by nrsratchett
on 2007-12-23 21:56:32
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yea, i made an account so i could comment on your shit. and what?
i dunno dude, it seems like there's a lot to this situation i don't know, so i can't really say much in any amount of fairness to either of you right now. i'm assuming she doesn't read this. am i right?
just out of curiosity, do you post here because you need/want any advice, or is this just a means to vent? i know how i get when people dump unwelcomed advice all over me, so i want to make sure that any advice i may give is, in fact, welcomed.
take care man, and hope to hear from you soon.
-bon
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Posted by ambiviolent
on 2007-12-24 06:18:12
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oh, and i don't know what's so much "better" about this one than livejournal - a blog's a blog, far as i'm concerned :)
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Posted by ambiviolent
on 2007-12-24 06:19:03
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