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So I called my wife yesterday to tell her Happy Thanksgiving and all that good stuff. I knew that her family was going out of town and taking our daughter with them to a family member's house. My wife had to work, so she wouldn't be able to go and she was going to be alone. I figured I would call and talk to her and hopefully she would go to a friends house for dinner.
I wasn't expecting her to answer because I called a little early. I figured I would just leave a message, but she answered. I told her everything I wanted to say and then she told me she was over at her friend Mary's house. I thought, "Ok good, she isn't by herself.." Then she had the nerve to ask me if I have been looking for a place to live when I get back.
I was so mad about that. I didn't get mad on the phone, but I was just mad inside. She knows I can't exactly find a place from way over here. Not only that, why ask that when I'm calling to wish her a Happy Thanksgiving? I ended up telling her that she needs to give me the time to find a place when I get back. I can't exactly go find an apartment on a Sunday. I'll need a couple days to get situated back home with work and all that and I'll need some time.
She, of course, turned that back around on me and said that I tend to say I'll do something and then take a few days, which turn into a few weeks, and then a few months. I told her she didn't need to worry about that. I'll be getting a place pretty quickly.
What frustrates me about the whole situation is that while I've been gone, she has taken $800 a month from our joint account and put it in savings. She didn't really inform me on what she was feeling and thinking about until just recently and now I have no money to get my own place when I get back. It just would have been nice for me to know and be able to save up money instead of paying off some of my student loans while I was out here. I was paying $1600 a month to student loans, and now I am going to be broke when I get an apartment.
It just frustrates me because I feel like she is only concerned with herself and that two hour conversation we had a few days ago now feels fake. I think she is doing everything to prepare for a divorce and it sucks. I don't want it, but I can't make her love me back.
Maybe I should start getting myself ready for the single life?
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Posted by crash413 on 2007-11-23 05:04:51 | Rating: | Views: 107
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I feel for you friend I hate it for you.I always like to think things happen for a better reason on down the road.Look at it as though it will turn out better in the long run.things seem to be out of your control.also remeber you can do anything if you set your mind to it.
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Posted by private1
on 2007-11-24 10:51:18
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Wow, it seems that she really doesn't have any regard for your well-being, that's terrible! It takes a while to find a place, and even longer to find a place that you can actually afford, Here in California, the cost of living is ridiculous! I can barely get by. You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders, you'll be fine. You will be in my thoughts & prayers. :)
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Posted by mediocrevibration
on 2007-11-24 13:04:03
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