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My Big Brother... on 2007-11-28 04:13:38 |
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I know exactly what you are talking about when you said you seek his approval. My older brother is sorta like yours. Except that he will actually try to keep in touch.
He is a few years older than me and still lives at home with my parents. He doesn't keep a steady job, he smokes pot, and he doesn't really pay my parents back for anything.
For some reason though, I've always looked up to him. Probably because he's just always been my older brother.
Hopefully he will come around and will make it to your birthday party.
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Many soldiers return with brain injury (USA TODAY) on 2007-11-25 03:50:55 |
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I know that a lot of the numbers are fudged. Say for instance that a soldier get hit with a bullet and survives long enough to be transported out of Iraq to Germany. He later dies in the hospital in Germany. His death isn't considered Killed in Action in Iraq.
It's a really messed up system and in my opinion is used to keep the US population from knowing the truth.
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can i jump now? on 2007-11-24 08:41:41 |
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Interesting post. I do have to ask, is this boyfriend your daughter's father? He should take on some responsibility, and you should approach him about it. Try bringing it up in a way that it doesn't sound like nagging. I always felt like my wife was nagging me when really she was just asking me for some help.
It's a tough situation that you are in. My wife was the same age when she had our daughter and I was pretty much like your boyfriend. Hopefully he'll come to his senses about everything and start helping.
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9:33pm on 2007-11-22 11:39:37 |
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Yea...there were.. were you like half asleep when you wrote that out? j/k... I'm sure your dad will get over it though.
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Religion "THE" DUN DUN DUNN Topic. on 2007-11-22 02:27:23 |
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I've always been the type to say that I don't need to go to church every sunday to believe in my faith.
I know a lot of people say that Christians and Catholics are two different people, but I don't believe it. I was raised Catholic and I go to church every once in a while. I've run into many different Christians. Some like you described, who won't listen to you and who will judge you. Others that are just like me.
It seems like you are questioning certain things in life, which is totally normal. If we didn't question stuff, we'd still be living in the dark ages. I think you'll figure everything out. You seem to be a smart girl. ;-)
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9:33pm on 2007-11-22 02:18:46 |
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So what made them think you smoke weed?
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Divorce on 2007-11-21 06:26:01 |
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Whats up white knight. I'm not here to criticize you. I only read your blog because I have a similar situation. I understand where you are coming from. For the last year, I felt like I wanted that divorce and I felt like I was lying whenever I told my wife I loved her. I treated her horrible too...not just as a wife, but as a human being.
I got through it all and realized that I trule loved my wife. I didn't want to be apart from her. The sad thing is, I realized it too late and I may not be able to get her back.
When I get home, we'll be seperated. I know that we both need to have our space to figure out if we really want to be with the other. Maybe that's what you need to find out if you truly feel this way?
I'm definitely going to bookmark your blog though.
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Let it Go on 2007-11-20 09:53:40 |
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Good point Wayne... I've only been on thoughts.com for a couple of weeks and I have noticed that a lot of the popular posts are just 18 year olds ranting about high school drama.
As far as the swearing goes, I'll quote my basic training instructor. He said that although swearing isn't necessary, he felt that it really helped to get his point across. I would have to agree. There are times when you need to swear for it to sink in, but for the most part, swearing shouldn't be all over a blog post.
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Married life!!! on 2007-11-18 06:30:39 |
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I know that in internet time, this post is about a decade old, but I want to give you my perspective. As I read your blog, it mostly sounded like you were describing me and my wife.
Basically, I do the whole smoking and drinking type stuff. I'm working on getting away from that though. I have finally realized how much I have screwed up with my wife and I know now that all it takes is giving her some attention.
I always said that my wife and I have a poor sex life. I just never thought into it and realized that in order for us to have a great sex life, I need to change things. I need to quit smoking (my wife won't make out with me because I smoke), I need to give her attention more. When I see her in the kitchen or in the hallway, I need to do things like just grab her and hug her or brush her arm and tell her I love her.
I think that your husband might need to make some changes before its too late for you both. Luckily I've figured it out and still might be able to salvage my marriage (a little over 2 years)....
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If Dear Abby Were Dear Albert on 2007-11-18 06:09:49 |
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That was hilarious. I think you're on to something here....
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I always thought I was good in bed. on 2007-11-18 06:06:12 |
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don't even worry about him directing you. Think about it this way...he wants to make sure you know how to please him... its open communication.
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The good and the bad of Highschool (Day 1) on 2007-11-18 04:11:59 |
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High School drama is awesome. Just wait because in like 4 years it'll all come back again at drunken house parties...
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no capitals! dun dun dunnnn...! on 2007-11-17 09:03:26 |
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Something totally random. Nice! So, I think you need to write more about Satch and more about why you feel you are someone else's burden if you hang out with them.. I know I'm curious about it....
P.s.s. That's a great song!
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My first letter to Jason on 2007-11-15 02:35:52 |
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Hey. I read your little "About me" thing in your profile and figure that I don't care what you say about how you hate people. I'll still comment on your blog.
I think its great that you're gonna become someone that you are proud of. I'm going through a similar situation where I need to become something I'm proud of and quit looking for other people's approval.
This letter to Jason shows that he hurt you. I'm sorry to hear that. I hate that feeling of being hurt. But think about the future and always look for the brighter side.
Hopefully you'll be more willing to write even if people comment on your stuff. I hope everything goes well for you!
-Chuck
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There is ALWAYS a boy... on 2007-11-13 09:19:57 |
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I'd say to be careful about it. He may just be trying to hook up, but don't get with him unless he breaks up with his girlfriend. And wait until he gets his own place...
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