| consistentlyinconsistent's Blog Comments |
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blabber on 2007-08-28 17:48:34 |
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We are all hear to listen/ read when you need it.
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DAY 10 on 2007-08-24 18:49:09 |
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Hey, that's good stuff :)
Sorry I kept missing you on here to meet up for an instant message session...seems my timing was a bit off from yours somehow.
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Depression on 2007-08-24 18:45:31 |
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No one said it was easy...and if they did they would be lying to themselves and everyone else. Take it one day at a time. It is understandable that you will have your good days and your bad days and when you have a bad day it doesn't make you any less of a good person/ or human.
The one thing in life that I've learned is that there is no such thing as perfect...no perfect life, no perfect person, job, car,house, thing, love, etc. Just remember that.
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Free Speech? on 2007-08-24 18:28:16 |
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I agree with your opinion and I am not ever an American! Not to say that where I live the government is any better.
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Case of the Ex- Boyfriend on 2007-08-18 09:35:26 |
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friendofnemo...you make me feel a little guilty now...I kinda told him that what he said to me was not fair, that he doesn't have that hold on me any more and that he should go fuck himself literally if all that he wants me for is sex.
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10 things that make me laugh on 2007-08-17 20:01:43 |
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lol, number 3 reminds me of a puppy when it wrinkles it's face. :p
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Case of the Ex- Boyfriend on 2007-08-17 19:32:32 |
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I agree with you guys...it just doesn't seem fair for him to pull that kind of shit and want to be my friend. I think since I let him get away with it in the past when I was single that he thinks he can get away with it now...All I know is that I love K and wouldn't do anything to throw that away.
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the therepist on 2007-08-16 19:55:04 |
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Hey, keep blogging and I will keep reading...deal?!? I agree with you if someone doesn't like what you are writing they don't have to read it...after all the whole point of a blog is to write about what you are feeling...not to suit it to other people's reading preferences.
Remember, take it all one step at a time...I have to do that when I get overly anxious about everything...kinda like stop thinking about the goal down the line and just think about the now and how you will deal with what is happening now.
Well, that is my 2 cents. :)
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SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX on 2007-08-16 19:49:55 |
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Ooo, sex in a public place...that is always exciting!
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Sexless Writes Back..... on 2007-08-15 18:24:17 |
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Thank you for the followup post. You seemed to answer the questions that were asked.
As someone that has a mild degree of anxiety, I am recognizing your wife is exhibiting anxiety symptoms.
I agree half with what the therapist said...that it is selfish to put you through this...lack of an intimate connection. But, I feel that what the therapist said might have only made your wife feel guilty for what she "can't do."
I think that another therapist should be consulted for a second opinion.
I commend you for sticking with her through it all...for better or for worse, the world really needs more people like that.
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Sex on 2007-08-13 19:06:51 |
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I agree with Pearle...do not bindly trust someone, take the proper procautions, and only do it, if you are going to out of love.
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SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX on 2007-08-13 18:48:04 |
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Here is my list:
Oral getting it (not so much giving it), I like to be on top, or on bottom, doggie style is good, I've done anal...done right it is mindblowing! I like being spanked hard, biting and being bit, being tied up, being held down, holding someone down, dirty talking while having sex.
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sex on 2007-08-13 18:43:00 |
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*raises hand* I do, I do!
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Bisexual experiences on 2007-08-13 18:13:20 |
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I've yet to have any sort of sober bisexual experience.
I was trashed when this girl I just met gave me a lap dance, bit my nipple and kissed me (I kissed back) in front of everyone I worked with...lol I have never lived down how hot it was to all the guys that I work with. I had to admit out of all of it this one turned me on. She was very good looking and knew what she was doing...and a tiny part of me liked that guys I knew were watching it happen.
The other well, let's just say I had an aquaintance that was lesbian and she was having a birthday party...again I wasn't sober and since she was the birthday girl she got to lick and bite me on the chest...which felt good.
The third instance was with my best friend when we were both piss-assed drunk and we licked peanutt butter off of each other's chest in front of about 20 other people.
I wonder what it would be like to do some of these things sober!
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Sex, sex, sex on the brain on 2007-08-12 17:41:24 |
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I agree...sex is good...I would be sad without it in my life! Never had a threesome before...although my ex used to want one all the time with anyone lol + me + him.
What about bisexual experiences, anything to say about them?
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Sex, sex, sex on the brain on 2007-08-10 21:41:20 |
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I like what you wrote :)
I booked mark you, definitely hope that more people will start talking about sex on here! And I am glad that you are so open about it!
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Sex, sex, sex on the brain on 2007-08-10 21:25:24 |
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Hahah. I couldn't believe he would A.) Not know she was a cold fish before hand. B.) Not talk to her about it!
I can seriously quote my boyfriend saying "I don't think you've ever said no."LMAO. I am always ready and willing...but he is so sexy all he has to do is look at me and I am taking off clothes (Mine or his!)
BJ's aren't my favourite thing to give...which strangely works since my guy isn't fascinated with them, but I do give him them just to hear him moan a bit for a change. You should tell that guy that his wife needs to "suck it up"...literally lol!
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Sex, sex, sex on the brain on 2007-08-10 21:11:50 |
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Umm, I love sex! I loved it so much that it was a shocker to realize that bad sex does exist...glad I only experienced that twice!
I don't think there is anything wrong in talking about it. I think more people should be open to discussing it as it could lead to more exploration and ultimately to greater heights of pleasure...
Did you read the one about the guy on here who's wife hasn't had sex with him more than 8 times in 5 years???? OMG, I would murder myself if that were the case. I am female, but I am sure that I am up to par with the libido of the average male.
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Just a tid bit to get ya thinkin! on 2007-08-10 21:04:26 |
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It's so true there is no other language like the English language.
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Sex, sex, sex on the brain on 2007-08-10 21:00:57 |
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Have you found there aren't a lot of posts about sex on here??? is it wrong to say that word or something??? I think about it...and the name of this website is thoughts.com....go figure.
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:) on 2007-08-10 20:54:45 |
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*Karma not Karam
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:) on 2007-08-10 20:53:14 |
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Uck...man whores make me sick...I never thought they were so sleazy till one came to work at my office...he was all over any girl there...even the one with the wedding ring that didn't like him...he would come sit on her desk and flirt.
Karam should be enough to give this guy the slap in face/ pants that he needs to realize that women/ people have feelings and aren't just a piece of @$$
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Is there still something there? on 2007-08-10 20:48:21 |
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I know...mine...he left me for another girl that he met while we were still together...yet it didn't make me want him any less...and he seemed to only want me more. Raw passions and old feelings astir...until he called me number 2...forced me to realize that I was the other girl in the situation...not the #1 in his life. I didn't talk to him for months...yet he came back like a cancer. He was single I was single...the feeling I thought would have died over the years still lingered... we had our fun...and he seemed to still be chasing someone/ something else...no more being number 2...I was good enough to be number 1 in someome,not his life. Found someone new...and he stuck around...still does, offers a shoulder to cry on if I ever need it...but we all know it has a cost that I don't want to pay with my heart again.
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Sex (OMG TABOO!!!) on 2007-08-10 20:39:23 |
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I was 19.
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Wow! on 2007-08-10 20:37:20 |
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bdsm...you remind me of someone I used to know that overused the word "cheers" at every opportunity he could. :p
Have you always lived in TO? Do you have a profession? I'd like to know what type of job a "cheersayer" finds themself in.
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The First Morning After on 2007-08-10 20:32:57 |
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I really enjoyed your story. I found it very amusing that you poked some fun at Canadians...since I am one! Don't worry, I am not a "quebecker" as I call them. I love Canada and I am glad to be a part of it.
Keep the stories coming!
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Men on 2007-08-10 20:15:55 |
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Some guys don't have a clue and can't hide the immature jackass inside of them. If he was a real man he would suck it up and be there for you...not make you into his mommy to "take care" of him by being his personal slave. Just stop doing the things you do around the house and when he asks why, tell him that he takes all that you do for granted...it might open his eyes.
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first time on 2007-08-10 19:48:55 |
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Are you for real?? Please tell me you used protection... all you need is an STD from your chunk of love. Love is not found in a parking lot...I can tell you that!
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The neverending death... on 2007-08-09 19:26:40 |
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Everyone that knew him seems to blame themselves... I just wish I could have hung out with him more...but, can't go back in time right?
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Sexless Marriage on 2007-08-09 19:06:57 |
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Not to ask a question that hasn't been asked before, but...Have you talked to her about it? Have you considered seeing a marriage counsilor/ sex therapist?
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