Well my life has always been a constant cycle of living and learning... I made alot of bad choices, some good choice, and still making some bad choices... I wonder why is it that when certain situations come to hand and we know that in the long run its going to be a bad choice.... we begin to think to ourselves, well maybe we can give it chance.. what the heck lets take the risk.... In phase 1 of our decision we accpet our choice, things begin off looking good; Phase 2, things still look good but it also start to feel shakey you dont see nothing to conclude your feelings, thoughts, and assumtians.. so you shake it off and continue on.... Phase 3, Things go from looking good to unstable and not how you expected, so u intervein and try to make things rights .. communicate to figure where things went wrong... however you seem to not be getting no cooperation.... lastly Phase 4, your sitting there with a bunch of regrets, brokenheart, broken dreams, and stupidity written all over your face.... Well thats what you call living and learning... this can apply in every aspect of live: reletionships, career, school, family, anything....

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But I wonder>>>> If we know already what the circimstances are going to be from which choice we make why pick the wrong... Why take the risk? Why not just avoid it all and go on with life as it were? Why add the extras and get stuck with regrets?