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do u really think its goin to be no use if u have sex wit a man , coz somewhat or the other i also feel the same that guys want the same thing and if they are gettin it then why wud they ever want to go for marriage , is it ?
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Posted by mishal
on 2008-03-05 08:15:18
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honestly yes... most men like a challenge in a reletionshp... they it as different levels to complete, if they completed all levels whats the use of keeping the game they alreay know what to expect...
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Posted by concreterose
on 2008-03-05 11:28:59
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... But, that is what i have decided on for my future to come reletionships... I had did a self evaluation on my love life and realized where my down fall comes at. My last reletionship, for example, started off great! We had such a strong communication path going for us where we can talk about anything including our true feelings. However when sex came into play it was like that was all we talked about after that and all we became. That bond that we had and our connection slowly melted away, until one day he decided he just wasn't feeling me anymore. The key word is Feeling, but i will come back to that in another blog. I used to sit back and cry and cry asking what went wrong!! That when i was listening to a radio talk show and the topic was having sex after marriage. He clearly said if a man is getting all the goods what is the use of marriage. I thought to myself thats the problem... With whom ever i marry I want to have a strong bond with that man a true friendship, and strong communication... therefore, for me, to have that... i decided to wait for marriage until the next time i have sex. The next serious reletionship i come across, will be time spent building that strong bond we will need to have to become a successful couple. Well pray for me!!!
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