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my sister ruined our friendship as soon as she found out i was dating a girl. i started dating this girl i had met my last year of college. we were friends first and then slowly i began to feel more for her as i got to know her better. i'm older than her by 9 months...but we're mostly on the same page. we've been dating for over 8 months and most of that has been long distance, unfortunately.
my sister has met my girlfriend once, when we were just friends and was very nice to her. as soon as my sister finds out we're dating she hates her. just because she's dating me. see my sister as soon as she found out that i was dating a girl...she wouldn't talk to me and wouldn't even look at me. she was more concerned about how if affected her than the 2 people who are involved with the relationship...me and my girlfriend.
my sister didn't even give my girlfriend a chance, she started judging her as soon as we started dating and just for the simple fact that she's gay and dating her sister.
this completely blows my mind because we have many family friends, and personal friends that are gay. one of her best friends who she's moving in with used to have a girlfriend. but yet she can't accept that i'm in an extremely happy and healthy relationship with my girlfriend.
me and my mom talk about this all the time...my mom is completely disappointed in my sister over this and it really upsets her because she sees how my sister is pushing me away. my mom has told me that my sister has said some very hurtful awul things about my relationship with my girlfriend ...she won't even tell me what she says...which mean it must be really bad.
and to this day my sister has never aplogized to me for anything.
my sister is being so selfish it makes me sick. i feel like it's too late now. she's selfish, stubborn, and jealous...and she's been like this for over 8 months...i don't even know if i would except her apology anymore.
i'll always love her because she's my sister...and i'll always be there for her...but i don't think i can ever be her friend again.
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Posted by coffeeloverr on 2007-12-15 20:51:38 | Rating: | Views: 107
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Your sister is your sister and always will be. Please don't become the antagonist to which you despise. Forgive her behaviour and accept her for who she is faults et al. You will be the bigger person for doing so. Best wishes :)
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Posted by Abstract
on 2007-12-15 21:16:49
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Awe hun. That has to be hard.
I think people forget that we are not to be the judges of others in this world. That is for god. And though we may disagree we are still to love the person. Our love for them shouldnt changes based on decisions they make like that. Perfect love should be unconditional, as is the love god has for us.
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Posted by Thin_Inside
on 2007-12-19 11:17:38
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