I feel that a majority of people pray for the wrong reasons, and many prayers are like smoke up his nose, now dont get me wrong he listens to the sincer, He sees the poverty and the hungery, but the world is in the hands of the oppressor [and this is not an injustice on His behalf as we will see one day when we have true eyes to see] but if we turn to Him and put our life in His hands, then He can work with that, which means He can work through YOU! If your doing His will, he will strengthen that.

we have to understand what is a true sacrifice and partitions from a pure heart.

I almost feel like i'm intruding since this was addressed to our Father. God doesn't answer every prayer the way we hope for if it's not the best thing for you. Nor can he answer the prayer of another persons son or daughter anymore than I can meet the needs of the neighbors children. If you are a daughter (and I suspect you are)of God's then understand he has your best interest at heart even in what you consider his silence on te issue. He doesn't answer or ignore our requests ithout a reason or purpose, which is for you to have the very best life possible not just any life at all. He may want you to have someone in your life that will love you the way you love them and who will not interfere in your relationship with God. If you trust that the all knowing Creator has your best interest at heart, know that when you get where you're meant to be in relation to Him then He will bless you with an answer to prayer that will be long lasting and the best answer possible. Pravul is correct in what he says. I hope you're strong enough to "wait on the Lord", instead of becoming another divorce statistic down the road because you couldn't see as far down that road as you'd like to or as He can.