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I've known my girlfriend since February and we started out with just friendly conversationa dn tI didnt really see this coming but eventually we just happened. With the connection that we have as brother and sister I thought I would tell you out of respect about my relationship. Now Laura is not the first person I have ever talked to or in a sense spent time with in view of having a reltionship so lets not get things twisted but on the other hand it is the first time I've gone official as being an item as its something we both wanted. You've not met her yet and to be honest I'm getting sick of your constant jibes about how you think it can't last - you don't even know at level we connect - you don't know her character- you would prefer me to be with someone who is black as opposed to white - your words were - at least she could be better looking but for the record I think she is pretty - she might be biger than your average but thats not a major issue for me if I'm being honest. If true love and happiness is about sharing common interests and building on that foundation then I hope that I'm on that road right now. She does make me happy. She hasn't got a bad job at all - she's in a good career so indeed it is me who has to step up not really her. I don't necessarily want the finished article right now - slow cooking is good and it makes the final meal taste better if you catch my drift. All through my life I've not been good enough for you or even mum but even you have to now think that its not your choice and my life is my life. I think your being selfish by trying to convince me that what I have is not right for me - you are in the minority - you only have impact because your close but for the record I have never interfered in your relations unless you have wanted me to so please - stay out of mine. I will ask for advice if I need it or even take my own. If I am as intelligent as you believe then you will have to trust me to make my own decisions - you are not the barometer of my life so please back off. I will do what I need to - I am a man and approaching 30 at that - again if I'm really analytical as u so believe then please do think that I analyse my relationship in suffient detail but sometimes you have to go with your heart not your head. Leave me to follow my heart -when its instinctive I'm at my most dangrous- you right now are just calculating and not necessarily for the greater good.
Sis leave me be
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Posted by chocolatedigestive on 2008-06-12 13:38:04 | Rating: | Views: 49
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