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I hid and He found me.... on 2008-05-30 13:18:08 |
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Mamcita - awe thanks, thats sweet! smiles xxx Cheb xxx
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I hid and He found me.... on 2008-05-30 13:12:57 |
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Hi EasyToSay - got to say I've never much considered myself religious either - these are totally knew thoughts and feelings i am still working through. Im glad it moved you xxx Cheb xxx
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I hid and He found me.... on 2008-05-30 12:56:22 |
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Hi Bullseye - yes, that makes sense. I guess its not easy to consider God or religion when we are at our lowest, even though some might say that is when you need it/Him the most.
Thanks for stopping by xxx Cheb xxx
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I hid and He found me.... on 2008-05-30 12:54:33 |
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bellavita - thanks for stopping by and commenting - nice to meet you! xxx
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Rant on Religion? on 2008-05-30 06:33:22 |
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I found this post very helpful to me at a stage in my life where to my surprise my beliefs are beginning to change...I just wrote a blog on it - your explanation on the difference between belief in God and religion is very helpful to me, so thank you x Cheb x
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Culture or Cop Out on 2008-05-29 17:25:58 |
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I agree that if you're old enough to get married, you should be old enough ti buy the ring!
My father in law paid for my wedding ring and my engagement ring, which cost collectively about £20 (40 ish dollars)...one of many signs I really should have paid attention to - even then, I wasn't worth the effort. I wouldnt have wanted an expensive ring, but it would have been nice to know he had paid for it!
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Question Of The Day on 2008-05-29 10:00:07 |
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blimey...there are alot of people on my friends list and when I get chance I must go through the list and catch up with people...some I dont think blog anymore...and some I have neglected sad to say.
Anyway...I cant remember them all, so going on memory...
Stillkickin - a lovely man, honest and funny
Long - again funny, honest and decent
southernsun - humourous posts, no holds barred, a great attitude
angelweings - very sweet and always leaves comments to make me smile
wee_star - patient, kind and so gonna make a wonderful mum when her time comes
heymonkee - doesnt post often, but he lives in nottingham too, so he automatically qualifies as a buddy and when he does write...hes very talented.
plakola - a young girl worth so much more than she realises, a gem.
douglasmb -a new friend of mine, left a lovely comment for me. think we will be good friends
bullseye - first to comment on my blog, a lesser man, having gone through what he has, would not have offered support, but he did - his daughters are blessed.
KP - just getting to know KP, but have a feeling we will be good friends - she is honest and brave.
Hollis - spiritual, honest, kind and always there with a 'pick-me-up-post'
whiteknight - a man i consider a very dear friend - honest, kind and passionate.
mamcita - very funny but also very deep. sassy and loyal.
wayne - ahhh, who doesnt love wayne? funny guy, lovely too
badlydrawnstickman - amazingly talented and a great guy too...always upbeat and friendly.
Lastblastkl - very strong, inspiring woman, i am in awe of her
wlamebull - so, so talented, his work amazes me. what an incredible man
easytosay - just getting to know her, but she strikes me as funny, loyal and very decent - a classy lady. think we will be great friends
Ellie - I miss Ellie too! Hope she will be back soon x
ColoradoDreamin - theres only one word for her - inspirational. shes like another mother figure to me, wise and kind.
HungryHeart - a lovely guy caught in an impossible situation - brave, decent and honest.
stanleythomas - my darling boy...cant wait to see him updating his own blog!
and last, but never ever least...
Geordiedreamer - soulmate, lover, friend, love of my life xxx
who's diary would i like to read? Hmm...I would have to say whiteknight too...not just to get the dirt on KP, or his wife or any of that...but because with all of that aside, he is a very intelligent person who thinks deeply and asks questions, has theories and thoughts and is open minded - I think if he was able to write it all down, it would make for very interesting reading!
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An empty place... on 2008-05-28 14:30:21 |
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Its not pathetic or silly to feel the way you do. You're grieving, there's no time span for that. I lost my father 7 years ago and I still feel that way. The true legacy we leave for people who pass is to remember them (as you do), learn from them (as you clearly have) and keep living, taking them with you. Its okay to miss someone who's passed...just make sure you keep living too. Thats the greatest tribute x I wish you the very best and I agree with VarahnTet - he will be very proud to know you carry such a large part of him and what he taught you with you. Peace xxx
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Question of the Day on 2008-05-28 06:00:41 |
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Awe...hunny...
Hi KP...okay, this is a toughie because I see my fella has already picked our song (and I can see him now, singing it as he wrote it! hehe)
Okay...so as he said, we have a few songs, and most of the others are Beatles songs - I always say you can tell that Paul and John were head over heels when they wrote most of their music.
One of my favourites, that I have a habit of singing to Dave (although I have to change the words a bit) is a slightly less known one, called Here, There And Everywhere. I thoroughly recommend you listen to it, its beautiful.
Some of the words:
"To lead a better life,
I need my love to be here
Here
Making each day of the year
Changing my life with the wave of his hand
Nobody can
Deny that theres something there
There
Running my hands through his hair
Both of us thinking that love never dies
Watching his eyes
And hoping I'm always there
I want him everywhere
And if he's beside me I know I need never care
But to love him is to need him everywhere...
I want him here
and everywhere
Here
there
and everywhere..."
Perfect. Theres also Foreigners 'I Want To Know What Love Is'...was very fitting when I met Dave.
Good question, looking forward to Angelwings!
xx Cheb xx
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Once a worrier...always a worrier... on 2008-05-26 13:16:20 |
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Dave - thanks baby, for everything. xxx mwah xxx
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Magic Mim and the thoughts devotee on 2008-05-25 20:22:47 |
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Niiiceeee...I'm famous! Hehe x wow....hehe
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Good News!!!!! on 2008-05-25 20:19:28 |
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It must be a huge relief for you, I'm really happy for you! xxx Cheb xxx
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whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-25 14:20:31 |
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smileforthecamera - yeah, its been suggested, so I'm thinking of looking into it, I really dont want negative feelings to escalate. thanks for stopping by xxxxx
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whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-25 14:19:23 |
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Hi Ellie - thanks for stopping by. I know you're right too. God, is this how it always is?? its such a powerful feeling! LOl
Much love x Cheb x
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whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-25 14:13:14 |
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Gwatlan - Hi, and thsnk you. Yeah, I have already seen a fair few mums come and go, and I think part of what I am feeling is simple impatience. I want home with my boy! I'm sure everything will be fine though. Thanks for stopping by xxx
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whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-25 14:09:46 |
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ColoradoDreamin - thank you for your comment, support and great advice. I absolutely do need to slow down and take it one step at a time, I'm unneccessarily freaking myself out! I'm lucky I have a great family (I am very close to my mum and sister since my dad passed) and I can talk to David about anything, he's amazing.
Thanks for stopping by xxxx
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whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-25 14:07:45 |
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KP - thank you. Unfortunately I always over analyse and I need to stop. Thanks for your continued support (and your email) I appreciate it, and you x thank you xxx
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whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-25 14:06:36 |
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legacynera - yeah, this is my first, and given my fertility history, likely my last, which is fine because he all I need. I had never actually heard of post partum depression so I'm gonna have to read up on that. Its hard because I have no real reason to be depressed (nor right I feel), I have all I ever wanted...and I know everything will be wonderful, yet I still fret! Ah well...thanks for stopping by and commenting xxx
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whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-25 14:04:21 |
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Kaybee - its good to know others have felt this way, it takes away that feeling of 'abnormality', so thank you x your comment has helped me feel much better, thank you xxxxx
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whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-25 13:59:42 |
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E2S- yes, I keep having to remind myself of just what I have put myself through since the moment I found out I was pregnant - worrying that I would miscarry, bleeding in the third month, then going into premature labour, having c-section etc...its gonna take some time to adjust. That three day thing made me think too...cause it had been three days. I suppose I just wasnt prepared just yet!
Unfortunately David cant stay here, I wish he could! Ah, the NHS!
Thank for your support xx
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When You Believe.... on 2008-05-25 12:23:37 |
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Kaybee - thank you, thats sweet! it did in the end take a lot of courage to make the leap, which is part of why I love david so much - because without him...I never would have found the courage. Thanks for stopping by, nice to meet you! xxx Cheb xxx
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whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-24 19:33:38 |
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E2S - No night sweats as yet...but theres still time!
David already thinks I'm nuts so theres no worries there!
I guess I just feel like I have no reason or right to be feeling down...like its somehow taking away from how I feel about my boy. Its not, I love him so much and am so happy to have him...but ahhh I dont know...I think its just overwhelming, after all, I was under the impression I had a few more weeks to prepare yet, hehe
I just need every now and then to hear that how I feel is normal, so I dont feel like a total loon! xxx
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whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-24 19:27:13 |
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badlydrawnstickman - yep, he arrived wednesday, very early but he's okay. Have a look for user name 'stanleythomas' and you'll find his blog, and his pictures, and have a look on my fella's blog 'geordiedreamer' to find out how it happened
Thanks for stopping by xxx Cheb xxx
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whats wrong with me?????? on 2008-05-24 19:20:40 |
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thank you, I needed to hear that x thank you xxx
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Something to start your Weekend... on 2008-05-24 19:17:04 |
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brilliant..thanks for posting this..just what i needed! xxxx
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OMG I GOT MY PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!! on 2008-05-24 19:06:26 |
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my first one was when I was ten and I did not see it coming! Eighteen years later I just had my son. Welcome to the start of womanhood! xxx
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When You Believe.... on 2008-05-23 18:17:07 |
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deepinthought - thanks. we will certainly do the best for him that we can. i'm pleased that people read this blog, to me it was the most important one I have written - i wanted people to see what can happen if you just...go for it. I'm glad people have seen that message. Thanks for stopping by x Cheb x
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When You Believe.... on 2008-05-23 18:14:26 |
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BootLady - thank you! I'm glad you liked the post and thank you for your well wishes and support x thank you x Cheb x
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When You Believe.... on 2008-05-23 13:50:53 |
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WK - thank you. Still sounds surreal when people say it! hehe x thanks for stopping by xxx
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When You Believe.... on 2008-05-23 13:14:20 |
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HungryHeart - wow, thank you! I have tried with my blog, and this post in particular, to show how wonderful life can be, when the right choices are made and risks taken where needed. Im glad you see that x much love x Cheb x
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When You Believe.... on 2008-05-23 13:12:37 |
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CODreamin - wow, thank you. For your friendship, support and prayers, right from the start. Truly I am blessed to call you a friend. Thank you xxxxxxxxx Cheb xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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When You Believe.... on 2008-05-23 13:09:03 |
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Hi Ellie - yes, I got your email (thank you!) and am just about to reply! Then I'm off back to my bed, my mum is sat with Stan until I get back. I'm finding it really hard to sit still, its most unlike me, without sitting in front of a computer screen!
We are all very well, I am feeling sore but happy and the men in my life are both gorgeous! Life is good. Thanks for stopping by, hope all is well for you xxxxxxxx
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When You Believe.... on 2008-05-23 13:01:39 |
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Mamacita925 - thank yo for your well wishes and I'm glad you liked the post...it seemed a bit long, so I'm glad people made it to the end x much love x cheb x
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When You Believe.... on 2008-05-23 12:55:13 |
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pixiepatch - thanks for your well wishes and for stopping by, nice to meet you! xxx Cheb xxx
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When You Believe.... on 2008-05-23 12:52:43 |
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EasyToSay - Yep, everyone keeps telling me I should be in bed! As I write these replies I have Dave standing behind me ready to walk me back to my bed! I wanna go home, but I dont...at least not without my boy!
Yep...I've had the rollercoaster emotions! Poor, poor David.
Thanks for the heads up, nothing wrong with a little honesty xxx
Thanks for your congrats x Cheb x
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When You Believe.... on 2008-05-23 12:44:08 |
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angelwings - thank you so much. I'm really pleased that the post touched you and thank you for your kind words! The three of us are very happy and if things have worked out (I mean they HAVE) worked out...its because I have such great people in my life, and finally, I met the right man for me! So happy I could burst. Thanks for commenting x
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Stanley Thomas 21st May 2008 2lb 9oz!!!! on 2008-05-22 06:25:06 |
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Well...you always say I never do things by halves! Sorry for all the drama and panic babe, I didnt mean to put you through that. Thank you gfor coming down and being there with me. Sorry you didnt get to see him being born (neither did I, lol!) but hey...he's here now, and he's gorgeous and looks just like his dad.
Congratulations, I am so proud of you my love. I could not wish for a better father for my child than you.
I love you with all my heart xxxx
oh and thanks to everyone for your well-wishes xxx
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My Poor Rib Cage! on 2008-05-16 20:40:31 |
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My son is kicking the crap out of me more and more the further into the home stretch I get...its such a weird sensation, having a living person beat you up from the inside out isnt it! I can totally relate...I find myself telling him off, for all the good that'll do. I just want him out already now! This has gone on long enough, lol! x
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Yesterday is history,tomorrow is a mystery,today on 2008-05-16 16:14:21 |
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A lovely post and so true...I only discovered this for myself when I met my partner and when I found out I was carrying my son...life is precious and life...is just wonderful. Thank you for writing this x
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Superman Redux on 2008-05-16 10:02:56 |
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First of all...woooo I am one lucky woman! Sorry...needed saying. Second of all my first instinctive reply to your response to Dave was to say "Forget the world" but yes, unfortunately I know...thats easier said than done. Either way...I hope you find a resolution to this, and what matters is doing whats best for YOU - you cant make anyone happy until you are happy yourself...took me a long time to learn that, but I did and look at me now. Take care xxx
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I Knew on 2008-05-16 09:55:18 |
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If I'll have you...hell yes I'd have you! Ooh is this some sort of proposal for the digital age? Bless...had the same dream myself darling, many a time, only in mine our son is a mini version of you! And you say you dont write well...wow. Love you xxx
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Who am I? on 2008-05-15 05:14:40 |
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I'm studying psychology too, and we had to write about who we are - friend, wife, lover, mother etc...it was interesting to sit and really think about who you are and what you need to be to reach full potential. We did the same exercise in Sociology though and that was even more interesting. Sociology teaches us that these things are what we are, not who we are, and that we are whatever society sees us as to a large extent. As I said...interesting stuff.
The key is supposed to be to recognise what we are and what we want to be, and then work at bridging the gap. Nothing is impossible.
Great post x
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a quiet day in geordieland on 2008-05-13 18:22:19 |
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T'is most unlike you to 'moan' so I know you must be disappointed! I'll be there soon darling, middle of June I reckon. In the grand scheme of things...not long at all.
I love you xxx
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Growing old on 2008-05-13 18:20:37 |
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I also think that being happy in old age depends heavily (though not totally) on choices made earlier on in life, but not always. And I dont think its possible to 'miss the boat' in life either - its never to late to start being happy when you're not etc...
Great post and I agree with what you and shemelts said, very true x
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smoking on 2008-05-13 10:51:18 |
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Good luck from me too - back in December I smoked 40 a day and in the middle of January decided to quit and went on the patches. Its a good thing I did because I then found out I was pregnant. I have now been a 'non smoker' (sounds great when said aloud) for 4 months and I feel great. Its very, very hard but so worth it. Wishing you all the best xx
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Tuesday Funny.... on 2008-05-13 10:42:42 |
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hehehehehe xxxx sounds like a typical day with my ex hubby! x
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Mr horse. meet some water on 2008-05-13 08:10:39 |
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Seems a shame. You're right, shes not your mum though. When we reached a certain age - 14 or so - my dad had us buy the cards and presents for mothers day.
It may just be the fact that he's 18, and most 18 yr old lads are lazy and occasionally a little thoughtless.
I'm sure that when it came to the crunch, to something more serious, he would be a safety net for her.
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I'm Alive on 2008-05-13 08:04:50 |
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There is a massive difference between living and being ALIVE and believe me, once we take steps to be alive..oh my, it is soo so worth it in the end. Not always easy, but worth it.
I always say that now I am not a new person, but the person I always should have been. I just got lost for a while.
"People underestimate their capacity for change. There is never a right time to do a difficult thing." - John Porter
"The potential of the average person is like a huge ocean unsailed, a new continent unexplored, a world of possibilities waiting to be released and channeled toward some great good."
Brian Tracy
Be all you can be, do all you can do..and you wont go wrong x
Best of luck moving forward xxx
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pulling back the Lost oNe on 2008-05-13 07:12:39 |
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Wonderful post, and I totally agree. We never realise what we have until its gone or leaving and rarely do we get a second chance at it. We should never ever take for granted anyone precious to us, because they can be gone so easily.
All it takes is a few words, a gesture to let someone know we love and appreciate them and yet all too often, we forget to do it and say it.
A lovely post, so true. Thank you x
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Six Months on Thoughts on 2008-05-13 06:29:14 |
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Wow, thank you. I am really pleased you see my blog that way. I have empathised with you from the start, i get a feeling about someone from the moment I 'meet' them and you're clearly a lovely person.
I still wish only the very best for you. I believe in some shape or form you are due something wonderful soon, as your reward for your loyalty, decency and plain class in a tricky situation. I dont think fate (or God, depending on what you believe) would have it any other way. I really do admire you.
With regards to what N said, you always have a choice, we all do, its knowing whats the right choice to make, and unfortunately we cant know until we try whether something is right or not. There is always a choice, but its not always easy to make, you know? Trust your instinct though.
This really is a great place.
Thanks for a lovely post x
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for my lady on 2008-05-12 12:48:09 |
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Awe...wow. I was so born into the wrong decade! I love it, its gorgeous. Thanks baby xxxxxx
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packing up and moving on on 2008-05-11 05:29:53 |
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ColoradoDreamin - I have that 'what if I chuck it then one day need it' mentality too! I get it from my dad. When he died we cleaned out his shed and had to laugh - there was drawer upon drawer of nuts, bolts, screws, brackets, hinges etc...he saved them over the years and we used to make fun of him, to which he would always say 'laugh now, but one day when you need a new hinge on your door, who are ya gonna come to?'
Its not easy but I'm back to it today and am feeling as though I am in just the right sort of mood - and if all else fails, mum says I can store stuff at hers that I'm not ready to chuck but dont wanna lug up to Newcastle! A reprieve! Haha x
Thanks for commenting xxx
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packing up and moving on on 2008-05-11 05:24:16 |
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badlydrawnstickman - good point about the memories thing - thats the thing I dont get - most of them arent even good memories, so why am I hanging on? Haha x Still havent finished it, but I have today too and I'm gonna have to be ruthless - nice to see you stop by again xxx
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Bun in the oven...and its overheating! on 2008-05-11 05:22:25 |
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ColoradoDreamin - it is human nature I think. We've had a cool spring too, at times with a very cold wind.
Muggy - a word I love, I actually thought that was a British/regional midlands word, I didnt know others used it! Just about sums up today here! 23 degrees today, just right x thanks for stopping by xxx
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Bun in the oven...and its overheating! on 2008-05-11 05:18:13 |
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prelude2it - I would LOVE to live in Florida! Haha! The hottest place I have ever been was Tunisia in August - one day the temperature was 47 degrees celcius - I have no idea what that is in farenheit! It would have been lovely except there was no escape from the heat - I think thats what I need to find - somewhere cool to take breaks hehe x thanks for stopping by xxx
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Bun in the oven...and its overheating! on 2008-05-11 05:15:11 |
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sarahishere21 - I'm due August 2nd and I fear by then I may have actually melted! Haha x Thanks for commenting x
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Bun in the oven...and its overheating! on 2008-05-11 05:14:08 |
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HappilyMarriedMan - Maybe its not a 'British thing' after all then - just typical of people who live in generally cold places. Or maybe its just that we humans cant adapt like some species to to the climate - we have to take clothes off/put them on! Thanks xxx
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Bun in the oven...and its overheating! on 2008-05-11 05:12:33 |
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LadiLucifer - I'm one of those people who always feels hot anyway, but this summer already I'm sweltering, plus its a different kind of heat to usual (we have had s smog warning, cause the air is so thick) and then off course little man doesnt seem to like it, hes kicking me more than usual! Its gonna be a long summer...but man I love the sunshine! Thanks for stopping by xxx
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An apology for Chebtastic1 on 2008-05-10 18:04:56 |
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OOoooohh..our first arguement. Is it unrealistic to say I hope it never happens again, or is that inevitable? Either way it dont change the fact that I love you...I'm okay, apology accepted if you accept mine, you caught me at a funny moment, and I overrreacted. Please dont dwell on it.
Oh and take your phone off silent - I've been trying to call you back! Cant end the day without squareing things, my dad used to say never end a day on a cross word after all. Haha xxxx
I love you so much. See you in 10 days xxx all is fine, I promise xxxxx
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Just curious is a transgendered woman a lesbian? on 2008-05-06 16:13:17 |
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It is definitely cofusing! For me, I just prefer not to use laels, it takes away all the confusion. For example, I feel people just love someone, or are attracted to someone, just because they like them, irrespective of their sex. its possible its that simple and looking at it that way not only removes labels, but also removes negative stigma too.
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Is the sun smiling on you? on 2008-05-05 07:35:00 |
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Lovely post - I have been amazed at how my life changed just because I changed my attitude. Negativity attracts negativity and as soon as I let that go...everything fell into place.
Its a beautiful day here and I have all the windows open letting it all in. I feel great.
Happy Bank Holiday, and happy Monday! :-)
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Hello, good morning, welcome on 2008-05-05 07:32:09 |
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I agree - basic manners cost nothing and make a huge difference with impressions of people. I would feel odd if I just got off a bus without thanking the driver. Ex hubby used to say 'why are you thanking him, its his job and he gets paid for it' but as I said, he didnt have to take me anywhere and what does it hurt just to say 'thank you' 'please' or say hello.
I think its odd to do anything else.
Great post x
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Closure on 2008-05-05 03:54:32 |
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angelwings - thank you and thanks for stopping by xxx cheb xxx
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Closure on 2008-05-05 03:54:02 |
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HungryHeart - thank you! (blushes) dont know how I have done that but glad I have. Thank you for your kind words xxx cheb xxx
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Closure on 2008-05-05 03:52:52 |
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CD - Thank you for stopping by. What you said about i believing the "powers that be" dont want us to be happy is spot on for me, as is everything you said really.
I do suddenly feel as though a weight has been lifted, because I was carrying a huge amount of guilt over hubby. To know he is okay was very important to my ability to move on properly and now I can do that.
Thanks for your kind words xxx cheb xxx
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Closure on 2008-05-05 03:49:25 |
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mrsdragonseal - thanks for stopping by and for your comment xxx
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Closure on 2008-05-05 03:48:36 |
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EasyToSay - I'm glad that what I said makes sense, and I agree with what you said - when I am with David I forget everything else and its much easier to move on when in the arms of someone you love!
Thanks for stopping by! x
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Eyam on 2008-05-05 03:46:12 |
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Hi CD,
I'm not too surprised that you never got to hear about it, I guess its kind of a local history thing...more people know about the bubonic plague ravishing London (and the subsequent great fire) but not many know that for a year or so this plague travelled elsewhere and devastated a small Derbyshire village. I'm glad you found it interesting, as I do and when there it is impossible not to be moved by those people who gave up their lives for the greater good.
Thanks for visiting!
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Everybody Knows on 2008-05-04 16:03:33 |
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Real love makes two people into one person - kinda like branches - seperate yet part of the same tree. I dont know if that makes sense. There is a connection between you, and yes, I reckon people will see it and it is as you said...impossible to hide. Love is a powerful, all consuming lifeform over which I believe we have no control.
You express yourself beautifully and as Coloradodreaming said...I wish you luck in this tough situation xxxx cheb xxx
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Disciplining My Child on 2008-05-04 14:29:41 |
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I dont think there is anything wrong with smacking a child - there is a fine line between smacking and hitting, but there is a difference. My mum used to smack me as a kid and it did me no harm. She didnt do it to hurt me, she did it to embarrass me and thats the key - it certainly worked! I have very clear ideas on how I'm gonna deal with certain situations but I keep reminding myself of the point anotherdaze made - that I wont know what to do until I am there in that situation and I know the personality of my child. I am due at the beginning of August, and I cant wait either! :-) xxx
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5 reasons I won't vote for Barrack Obama on 2008-05-03 18:04:45 |
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I dont debate that its taking a life, I just take offence to the word 'murder' because its a little strong for some circumstances. So if you want to debate with me, make sure you read what I said properly first. Mind you, I think I'm done here, I've got better things to do than bang my head against a brick wall, as I'm sure you have. So we will just have to agree to disagree.
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Newts or mad hair - choosing London's Mayor on 2008-05-03 16:59:10 |
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Boris Johnson is an idiot and yet there is something about him I like - maybe its simply that hes entertaining, and always putting his foot in it. Whoever gets it, it should be interesting!
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Maybe he's a Family Guy on 2008-05-03 16:56:31 |
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Oh I love Family Guy! The Vasectomy song is classic (youtube it!) and the episode where Stewie and Brian get drunk and crash the car. Stewie is awesome, I really think he speaks for all babies! haha x
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For My Unborn Son on 2008-05-03 16:52:25 |
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darling this is beautiful...I know these days it doesnt take much but you have me in tears! Just lovely. Our boy is lucky to have you, and so am I! I love you xxxxx
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Eyam on 2008-05-03 16:50:36 |
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Hi Rose22...yes it is a strange place, like time stood still, very eerie. We read the book at school about it 'A Parcel of Patterns' I forget who wrote it, and I never forgot about the place.
I took a walk up to the Riley graves, the family who lived a mile from the village (all but one died). In the middle of the field are the graves and I stood amongst them and said aloud how brave they were and how in awe I always will be of these people who sacrificed themselves. I'm sure the horse standing close by thought I was nuts!
It was also nice to see that the village continues to have memorial events each year to commemorate those who died.
Thanks for commenting! x
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"Real World" Love and Relationships on 2008-05-02 15:50:30 |
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I still have people try to say that you cant find a 'proper' relationship with someone online. To those people I say 'Look at me and David, and the bump that in a couple of months will be our son!'
I fell in love with him as a person and then met him and the physical attraction and love followed. I fancy the pants off him, but I'd love him regardless, because of the man, the uncut version, I met online. As people have said here, you let things out that in the 'real' world you might not.
What a lovely post. Thank you x
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5 reasons I won't vote for Barrack Obama on 2008-05-02 15:40:20 |
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Yes a baby in the womb is a human life. Did I say it wasnt? No I didnt. My baby is 7 months in my womb, he has been a human life to me since the moment he was concieved. Is abortion murder? Not always...Oh I give up.
It must be nice to stand passing judegment on everyone, and to know how something feels even when you havent experienced it. How womderful for you.
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5 reasons I won't vote for Barrack Obama on 2008-05-02 14:14:09 |
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Personally I am against abortion...but I have gotten into this debate before. I'm not gonna try to change your mind, cause it seems yours is closed, but I just wanna explain my feelings on this issue.
The idea of a baby dying in any circumstances is heart breaking to me - of course it is, I'm pregnant and I also know how hard it is to concieve in the first place.
I hate the use of abortion when a baby is simply an inconvenient mistake. But what if its the only choice? What if a woman is raped? She didnt ask to fall pregnant and feels violated by the baby's presence. Yes, its not the baby's fault...but its not the womans fault either, therefore she is hardly a cold blooded killer.
In the UK, a man (or woman) who kills a pregnant woman would be charged with murdering the woman, as a baby here is not legally a person until birth. is that right? No. its murder, for sure. But theres a massive difference between killing a pregnant woman and having an abortion. Murder is too strong a word. it implies malice and that is incredibly unfair. unless you have been in a situation where abortion was the only option (for instance if there was something seriously wrong with the baby, or you could die if you continue the pregnancy) then you have no idea how it feels, any more than I do.
Nothing in this life is that black and white.
That's all I'm gonna say and I can guess what you will say back, but I wont comment again, because I know enough to know I'm wasting my time.
Think what you will (we're all entitled to that, absolutely)and I will do the same.
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This and that...clear the air on 2008-05-02 13:58:59 |
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As far as I am concerned, as (I hope) a friend on here, this post was unneccessary, as you said, you dont have to justify yourself.
I stayed with my husband long after perhaps someone else may have, because I wanted to give him a chance. I was critcal of him during that time, because to me all he needed to do was just try, make some effort, do something, and he didn't. I guess my criticisms were borne out of sheer frustration...
Now in hindsight I see I did neither of us any favours. I can also see now that maybe it wasn't that he did something wrong, or omitted to act...but simply that he wasn't right for ME. And I've also come to believe that no one can be changed. We are what we are.
I admire you for trying, but as I said before, its my humble opinion that with regards to your wife..the ship has sailed. You simply want different things.
I get why you and KP are not together but maybes you need to be on your own for a bit. Take some time to work out what you want and then take steps to achieve it.
As ever, I wish you the very best of luck and hope that in the end...things work out for the best, whatever that may be for you xxx cheb xxx
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maths on 2008-05-02 06:54:31 |
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I totally, 100% agree with that! It makes me want to gouge my eyes out with a spoon...lol...
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5 reasons I won't vote for Barrack Obama on 2008-05-01 10:30:24 |
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Without getting into a debate, I would like to point out that not all people from Saudi Arabia, or any other arab country, are terrorists, nor is everyone with the surname 'Hussain' related either. Thats all I wanted to say.
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