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xmas blah on 2007-12-25 14:30:02 |
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Ahh...the Christmas blues...know all about them! Don't know what it is brings it on. I have a theory that its something to do with the build-up - there's so much fuss and then the day itself just doesn't live up to it all. At least you're not freezing your arse off in England though. Sure, it's very romantic to have a white Christmas, but there hasn't been one in years, and this year it's minus 2 degrees and chucking down rain!! Boo Hoooo!!!! Merry Christmas to you too! xxx
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A Poem on 2007-12-25 14:16:08 |
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One of my favourites and so true...its only when we make time to stop and look around that we see things clearly...thank you for posting this xxx
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The Internet. on 2007-12-24 05:26:14 |
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Hi! Yes it's wonderfully weird but weird is not a bad thing! I met my fella over the internet, but we were talking for about 3 months before we met face to face and we both used to say 'can you feel it?' and we both could. A connection almost overpoweringly strong, more than it should be for two people who hadn't at that point met. We frequently type (and indeed say) the same things at the exact same time. When I'm sad he's always known it too. A week after I started chatting to him online I was almost run over on a busy road and not ten minutes before he had rang me to ask if I was ok, because he had a feeling I was in danger. I assured him I was fine (I was more than a bit puzzled) and when I rang him back he was unsurprised, he just knew potentially something bad was coming my way. Right from the beginning he always knew when I was sad (though I never talked about how I was feeling). I could have chatted to him and joked around, but he would still say 'don't be sad, everything is going to be okay'. I once went to see a psychic who told me he was sent by my late father, as a sort of living guardian angel. I know people will laugh at that but I believe it to be true. And just yesterday he told me exactly what you said...that he feels like we aren't two seperate people, but two halves of one person. And he feels incomplete when I'm not with him. And I feel exactly the same. So in answer to your question...yes, it is weird. But only because it's so rare. I believe everyone has 'another half', though sadly too few people meet theirs. You are lucky you have, and I feel blessed every day that I have. Don't worry about it - embrace it! It's a wonderful thing, and a wonderful feeling, if at times a little scary. I can't hide a thing from him, cause it's like I am transparent to him, he can see right into me like no one else can...be happy, because the feeling that comes with it I can only describe as completeness...and he is in your life, in whatever capacity, for a reason. And that reason can only be good.
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Seasons Greetings on 2007-12-23 11:09:03 |
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Thank you. And a Merry Christmas to you too...from just down the road (ish, haha) in Nottingham xxx
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Time for a Change on 2007-12-19 06:32:50 |
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Hi, ironically I am in the exact same position. The only difference is I have already met someone else, I just need to find the courage to actually leave. It's not easy, especially when you don't have a specific reason for leaving, when things have been ok (fine, but not great). Maybe like me, you love him but you aren't in love. I hope we both find the courage. keep in touch xxx
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A Definition of Love on 2007-12-16 04:28:11 |
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having read your profile, I also wanted to say that it isnt just how you feel that counts, but how you chose to act upon it. I think your attitude is commendable and I admire your way of thinking. I think you must be a very strong person, but I hope you find your own happiness too! x :-)
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A Definition of Love on 2007-12-16 04:16:43 |
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I think that is just beautiful. I am married but in love with someone else who I rarely get to see...when I pluck up the courage I will get everything I want, but for now it is enough so see him on very rare occasions and treasure every second in his company, however brief. She would be lucky to have you, as would anyone. keep smiling!! xxx
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Wishing for a miracle on 2007-12-14 16:07:27 |
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the answer to that question is no man who loved you would risk what he had with you, with any other woman. i married six years ago, and i settled for someone who i thought would make me happy, but he didnt. he didnt make me overly sad, things were just...normal. normal is fine, but not enough. i have now met someone else who makes me, fat girl with no confidence, feel like a million dollars...and that is how the right person for you can make you feel, should make you feel. if you feel your husband is the right man for you, dont spend your life in fear - he loves you, he chose you, he wants YOU. insecurity is normal and everyone feels it so please dont fret...you're not alone. men do look at other women, but we look at other men too! the difference is, men tend to talk about it more...but remember attraction and love are not the same. hope that makes sense! my husband was the type of man who couldnt say how he felt easily, but i am the type of girl who needs that, and in the end i had to find it elsewhere...talk to your husband, tell him occasionally you just need some reassurance. if he loves you, he will understand. sending you love and happy thoughts xxx
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