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The Truth Behinde the Separation

Just a little Thought for the boy that said he was a man along with thinks he is a man till this day.

The Story of the Separation from the womans point of view.

I was a work at home mom paying the rent and utilites as well as the normal bills. With a husband that loved to play video games. He did not have a job. He could of got a job since i worked from home and had the kids taken care of. But no his excuse is "i'm a stay at home dad, some one needs to take care of the kids" but all he ever did was play his video games and sit on the computer i bought for the house so he had something to do during the time i used my work computer. His helth did go down for he never walked and all he wanted to eat was spagettie. the amount he ate was the amount you would give a family of eight. then he would feed the kids one hot dog or a cup of noodles and send them to bed.

At this time it did bug me that he did not have a job and all he was doing is smooching off of me. but I did not say anthing about it for i did love him and wanted him to be happy.

Well the day came that my Little Nice Elizabeth was at the Primary Childrens hospital and i have not seen her for over 3 months. with her helth condition she could of passed at any time so the second my husband said go out and take a night off. I took it with out hesiation and when to the hospital and stayed the night with her. While in the room with her she had a little boy in there named Anthony. What a change this is he was born 4 months early and is the nefew of my sons birth father. It was fun hanging out with the two little babys and seeing how they are getting bigger. At about 11 am Steven came in the room with Anthonys Mom and Dad is was shocking to see him there. The second he saw me he stared asking questions about why i would lie and say i cant go see His mom (my sons own grandma) in the LDS hospital going thrue Open Heart Sergary. I asked him what are you talking about. He told me the FULL storie of how he asked me on MSN Mess to see if i can take his son william to see grandma before she whet under and had the posiblibilty of never coming out alive. I told him that was not me for i put family first even though we are not together she is still my sons grandma so she is family.

So after we got everything straitend out. I was a little mad that my husband would pretend to be me and lie. after all of the stuff i have gone thrue for him. So I asked Steve to come with me to pick up my kids and go to the hospital with me and his son also my Daughter. I was also planing on having him take the kids to the park so that I can sit and talk with my husband about how it hurt me having him go and pretend to be me. It was a Stab to the heart knowing that he has broken the trust i had for him. yet i was more then willing for the fact i did love him to give him a nother shot. and to have him think for the night while i am at the hospital i even had the number for him to call if he wanted to talk.

But no soon as i walked in the door he started acusing me of cheating and he started calling me names. he would not even let me say one word to explain what i have just gon thrue. so i yelled at the top of my loungs get out. hear i am the mom and i have kids to take care of pluse i was paying all the bills. so the desent thing would be to leave the house for me and the kids and leave. but no we had to involve the cops just for me to get one little house key so i can bring my kids home the next day for they have school and i had work.

During the night at the hospital my husband destroyed the appartment tossed food every where took my work computer and all of the electronics aslo my daughters barbie moves. he even destroyed the kids beds and toys. Along with all of that he shut off the phone, and internt the two main things i rely on for my job.

So i Lost my Job the land lord came over when i was cleaning and told her the storie she said you need to be out by tonight. so now i have no job no place to live all because of my stoopid mistake of trusting the man i thught i loved. well it was hard for the first few nights untill my sons dad called saying that the cops where just by to talk to me. I asked how did they get your address i am not even living with you. He informed me that my Soon to be Ex husband called DCFS and gave them a complete bull crap story about me and how i was taken care of my kids.

Well to inform my soon to be ex. for i know you will be reading thing.
Will you please return my Daughters Movies she has spend a long time colecting them and some of them i can not replace. she is hurt and thinks that you dont care about her or why would you take her things and destroy them.

As for my Son he is actualy doing alot better now that you are out of his life. he is talking more than ever he even informed me of the thing that you done to him when i was not home and you where alone with the kids. So you will get your carma in a few for the things you have done with my Children.

So why will i try to make your life misreble. I am not.

All i want more than ever is to be rid of you and your childish ways. But you are the one wanting to be a jerk and leave the country. So if you want to get this over with as fast posible like lets say today. Give back my computer and my electronics you do not even have to see me just drop them off at my mothers where i am not staying. then i will go to the court office pay the fee mself with out asking you for any help and get it noterized. then i will have a officer take the form to you so you can get it noterized. and there it will be done. we will not have to see each other and it will be finished befor you go out of country.

it is up to you i gave you my cell to contact me and this is going to be the last you hear from me unless you keep saying crap and lies about me. for every storie has two or more sides.

GOOD BYE ZVASHNA
In other words the worst man on earth EZEKIEL