umm honest. if you dont like you're boyfriend like that then why are you with him, like that.But i am not here to judge.. If you want this guy and you think he might be the one go for it... You have to stay true to yourself. Trust me I should know.. I like this guy and I am doing everything in my power to get him...

Well, if you want your boyfriends friend, my advice is to SLOWLY brake up with your boyfriend. Like don't spend that much time with him, and then he might brake up with you!! but if he doesnt then let him down EASY. Still be friends with him and hang out with him and then soon (when you and your bf have become pretty good FRIENDS) hook up with your bf friend!! its a perfect plan!!!
Yours Truly
Shirley

p.s. Hope this helps!!