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The other day my boyfriend talked to me about children. This is a difficult topic for me. About a year ago I found out I had a cyst on my ovary that drs told me would make it more difficult for me to ever have children should it burst if I didnt have it removed. I didnt have the money to have it removed and then a little less than a year ago I got pregnant and about 3 months in I had a miscarriage. The doctor was less then helpful during the whole situation and made me feel as though it was my fault that it had happened as well as telling me that the chances of me being able to have children decreased after my cyst burst and I had my miscarriage. Most of my close friends and none of my family know about this situation and I would prefer to keep it that way as to avoid unwanted drama. Which Is why I come to this blog. My boyfriend talks about us someday having children, which distresses me not only b/c I dont know if i can but also because I am a 22 year old who has been told by numerous doctors that my chances of someday being a mother are slim to nill. I dont know how to make my boyfriend understand this while not causing him any stress. I just wish there was a way for me to make him understand that bringing up the issue of having children before we are ready to have children is not only pointless but distressing to me b/c I do want to be a parent at some point. Im scared that I will never get the opportunity to carry and give birth to my own children because I overexerted myself and caused a miscarriage. Im not even sure how to deal with it all... |
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Posted by burbujas on 2008-03-28 01:57:12 | Rating: | Views: 66
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I don't know what to say to you but one thing I know is you might be in really stressed situation so I want to console you that I am praying for you and hope everything will get alright.
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Posted by neha1987
on 2008-03-28 02:09:26
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i am 16 and i just found out last week i had a miscarriage, so i feel your pain. i was about 2 months in. i spent the whole week crying on the couch...didnt go anywhere but im finally getting up and going places again. my family doesnt know yet, but my friends do. oh and my doctor was a jerk about it too and made me feel like shit.
anyway, have you just told him that it stresses you out when you have talks about having children? you should. alright, well i hope everything turns out to be fine and i will talk to you later. xo
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Posted by Courtney1991
on 2008-03-29 19:33:59
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