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To take him back or not?
Well if anyone has been following my pathetic blogs here is the continuation. Well Sunday my live in boyfriend broke up with my voicemail while I was at work and moved out. I was really pissed about how he did it and what he took. So I turned off his phone, that I pay for. He got pissed and basically called me a b@F#$% and told me I could burn in hell. With that,  I kind of got nervous so I got my locks changed to my apartment and contacted my apartment building and my son's school saying he was not allowed near my son nor my apartment. Well then he left message after message saying how sorry he was and that he shouldn't have said the things he said and that he wants to come back home. He has been crying a lot lately to me. I finally talked to him and said that I would have to think about it. He said he would change and that I would be completely in charge of his paycheck. He said he would have it directly deposited into my account. I know that was the source of my problems was him not paying his half of the apartment. I mean I love him and everything but I don't know if I should give him a second chance. He said he left because I treated him like crap and didn't give him the affection that he needed. My parents and friends say it should be over, that I deserve someone better but I don't know. Should I give him one more chance or should I say forget it??????????? Please read my previous blogs if you want more details. I would really appreciate anyone's advice or comments. Thanks a lot!
Posted by broken97 on 2008-02-28 20:48:50 | Rating: n/a | Views: 100


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Posted by
bullseye
on 2008-02-28 21:00:09
 
no... stay away... trust me... temper once, temper twice... you deserve better. i have not followed this blog but i will tell you just from what i read here... you need to think about you boy, not HIM....
 
 

Posted by
Goo
on 2008-02-28 21:12:59
 
Sometimes some mistakes are irreversible. He made one that could never be repaired--he ABANDONED you.
Why does he want to come home? Is it because he loves you? Because he missed you? Or is it because he NEEDS you for your paycheck and your support and that he wants to USE you?
He abandoned you once. If I were you, I would not let him become part of a situation where he could abandon you again.
Good luck, and I hope that whatever his subliminal intentions, that it works out for the better.
 
 

Posted by
Quiet_Dreamer
on 2008-02-28 23:06:09
 
Don't you dare let him back into your life.

If nothing else, think about your child. you don't want your son around someone like that.

If he says he can change, then let him get his own place and make himself more secure in his finances on his own. If he can show you that he can manage on his own with paying bills and such, then *maybe* things could be talked out.

but don't listen to his empty promises.
 
 

Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2008-02-29 12:25:57
 
Don't take him back. He did it once, he;ll do it again. You are his crutch. He's afraid he can't make it on his own, he's relied on you to carry him. I've been guilty of it too, spoiling a boyfriend until the drain you and there's nothign left. Stay strong hun, you're gonna get through this, you've got your son.
 
 

Posted by
broken97
on 2008-02-29 17:48:36
 
Thanks everyone for your comments and advice! I really appreciate it! :) I'm trying to stay strong.
 
 


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