
Posted by
lastblastkl
on 2008-02-23 20:19:36 |
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| i think you answered every one of your own question love. i think you know what you should do and yes i do think you're afraid of being alone. if you knew my living arrangements you would understand. but if you're having this much misery you either need to sit him down and make him listen or kick him to the curb. your child is first and foremost in your life right now. good luck. |
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Posted by
broken97
on 2008-02-23 21:04:52 |
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| Thanks. I just don't want to hurt him! |
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Posted by
unreachable
on 2008-02-24 09:57:23 |
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| I think this blog is maybe exactly what you should say to him, i think he is yes going through abit of a hard time however i think he is self pittying himself abit much and taking advantage of oyuu and youur kindess and hospitality...youur child is the most imporatant person here and i can sort of relate because i have a child too and i think if he doesnt have the paitence to have a civilised or mature conversation about how youur feeling then oyuu should really consider listening to youur head and not oyuur heart...because he says if oyuu loved him youu should understand but if he loved yu he should understand youu and how youu need his help...if not just say to him i need to move home for a while or with a freind because the money situation is too difficult and i need to get back on track...i hope everything goes ok and make sure oyuu put your son and youurself before him because youu deserve that much x |
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Posted by
smileforthecamera
on 2008-02-24 13:50:42 |
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| Clearly you are not happy right now and the longer you stay in this situation the less happy you are going to become. The only good thing about this is that he makes you happy. He can still make you happy without using all your money. Just because you dont live together doesnt mean that you have to break up. Like the others said, you know what to do you just need the courage to follow through. All the best love. |
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Posted by
armypunk4077
on 2008-02-27 18:18:19 |
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| leave him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2008-02-29 12:24:26 |
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| I was there once. It sucks like hell to think of hurting someone else but in the end you could be hurting yourself and your son by staying with him. You deserve to be happy and your son deserves that. Be strong, follow your heart, that's all you can do |
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