Sign Up |  Login

     
 
    My Blog |  Popular Posts |  Top 100 Blogs |  Recent Blogs |  Random Blogs |  Write a Blog |  Manage Categories |  New Members |  Comments  
   View Blog
 
 just a thought running threw my head
I'm in a debate between what i think i want, and what i think is right for me. If their both the same or maybe different. I'm in a relationship kind of, with someone who i really care about and this person this person says they love me, and honestly i think i love them just haven't told them that yet i want to really bad, just scared to. I really want this relationship to work out  and grow.I have never really let  anyone see all of me in a deep way. In my past relationships, which is not many, they have gotten to know 90 percent of me but i always held back the 10 percent I'm not really comfortable sharing. i want to share with this person everything about me but its ganna open me up to the possibility of getting hurt, i guess i just want to see where this goes, and take it from there. I've know this person almost a year but have been talking to them for a little less than that. Any ways i feel this person is a good match for me because i can just be me around them and be relaxed, comfortable happy, and at ease. Just a though running threw my head.
    Posted by briannamead on 2009-08-05 23:09:29 | Rating: | Views: 50
    Email This to a Friend            Print This Blog Post  

  Bookmark:
Permalink:  
   Blog Comments
  
It is better to have love and lost. Go for it.
Posted by  pjnord  on 2009-08-05 23:44:42 
  
My opinion: I think you should tell the person how you feel since later you may regret not saying it... and that wouldn't be such a good memory... what do you have to lose... since he love you and it sound like you do too... don't hesitate since you don't want to wait to long...
Posted by  m9042  on 2009-08-06 01:36:01 
  
Seriously, tell them how you feel. You will be better for it in the end.
Posted by  tiffanyrae24  on 2009-08-10 17:19:15 
  
I'm not sure if this blog's still in effect or not. But what you're facing is a common, perfectly understandable situation. Here's how I decide in that situation. I certainly will not open up on such a level to any person, if I'm not convinced that A) They are determined, and have shown signs of determination, to see me flourish in all ways, particularily emotionally; using what ability they have, to make sure that I grow positively. and B) I have enough reason to trust them with that type of information. The fact that you write blogs like these shows depth of intelligence, beauty, in your person. So I know you'll understand what I'm writing. Anyway, no relationship is worthwhile on a deep level if we don't open up to one another. This is true for ALL relationships, from same-gender platonics, to opposite-gender maritals. However, please please, do not open up so deeply, JUST because the relationship requires it. We have to heavily consider first, whether or not we TRULY trust the person. You're a beautiful girl, and you deserve far better than to be hurting over and over again. Alternatively, to be blatant, if there is any rational thing that makes us feel that we cannot trust them.. Something is provoking that thought and it deserves attention. So we have to heed those warnings strongly. I'd venture to say you'd be best off to end the relationship if that's the case, painful as it may already be. Hurting emotionally is way lame. Maybe it's better to have loved and lost.. I don't know. Personally, I can think of more reasons to disagree. Just my opinion. But one thing IS true: and unfulfilling as it may be, it's better to be smart and not let ourselves fall in love until there is no question whether or not it's safe.
Posted by  KaizerT  on 2009-09-20 01:30:14 
Would you like to comment?

    (Maximum characters: 5000)
    You have characters left.
  Blog Information
 

briannamead
Alabama, United States

Latest Posts

 just blah
 Random thoughts
 If you dare
 pill popper
 In the beginning

briannamead's Links

 No links found

Blog Categories

 Nothing found

Blog Archive

 September 2009 (1)
 August 2009 (6)

Comment Archives

 September 2009 (1)
 August 2009 (9)

   Bookmarked Bloggers
Jay8er
View Blogs
Page load time: 0.56641101837158 ms