My mom used to get after me when I was in my 20's about x's.  Her number one rule was "Never go backwards, always forward."  Her belief is if you are dating someone and you break up...let it go.  So of course, because I am a Taurus, my mother's only child, and simply hard headed I have NEVER listened to this advice.  lol.  Every boy or man I have ever dated minus 3 I have kept in contact with after the "fiasco" or relationship if you will. 

Today I was faced with another lesson on "why you should listen to your mom", "why to let go when you have a chance"... any randomn way you want to dress up a grandiose " I TOLD YOU SO". 

Basically one of my ex's called today and let me know that his new girlfriend said we can't be friends. lol... I just laughed and at that moment i finally understood why she had given me this advice. 

Man.. so he got to break up with me twice...!! One breakup for us was enough. 

anyway... I think I have finally learned why you can't love everybody and too, why you can't always  be nice to people. 

Jackass.  but it is my fault.  I just enjoy my conversations with him.  We have not had sex since well before we broke up quite some time ago.....or hell even touched in a sexual way... I wasn't interested in having sex with him ever again. I just really enjoyed being friends with him.  I feel like we should have always been just friends.

Oh well.  I have learned another life lesson the HARD WAY.  But suprisingly I am not hurt up about it.  I am cool. BYE!

Thanks for reading.